"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The one simple thing that has SKYROCKETED my in-date success rate...

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I have no idea why, but one simple change I have made to what I wear on dates has made a huge difference in my success rate.

A little background---about 2 months ago I ended up getting a gash in my head that required stitches to close. Unfortunately, I got a free shave on the area needing stitches as well. So I ended up having to buzz the rest of my hair so it could grow back the same length all together. I don't like how it looks on me---I look like a total d!ck with my hair buzzed. So I started wearing a hat all the time when I go out(not only on dates, all the time). Backwards.

This one change has completely skyrocketed my in-date success rate. Women are literally all over me on the dates now pretty much from the word go. Every single date I have gone on with a new woman since I have started doing this has led to extremely high interest---handj0bs, bl0wjobs, c0ck rubbing(no first date sex yet--still working on logistics) and most texting me right after the date or the next day about how they really had fun and want to see me again. Just got finished with a date tonight where she basically grabbed me about 30 minutes into the date and started making out with me like she couldn't take it anymore, lol...got the text right after saying she wants to see me again soon. She told me I look like "trouble" and a "bad boy".

I don't know whether it portrays an "I don't give a fvck" attitude, makes me look like a "bad boy", or makes me look more masculine. I have an oval face so wearing the hat backwards kind of cuts off my face and makes it more square-like and gives me a better jawline, in my opinion...but I would have never guessed it could have the effect it has on their interest level...

So anyone who is getting so-so results on dates, I would say to try this and see what happens. Especially if you have a round or oval face like I have.

Anyone that has an opinion on what might be happening and why this has increased my success so much please let me know your thoughts---I am kind of dumbfounded. I should have been doing this a lot sooner, buzz cut or not...
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What a bizarre tale.

I think it's funny because YOU didn't like the way you looked in the hat, but somehow the girls responded. Kind of puts the lie to the idea that you have to love the way you look before thers can appreciate it. Those two things are not always related, IMO.
 

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Are the females from lower class backgrounds?
Why do you ask that?

I have been wanting to pierce my ears and stick diamonds in them, wonder if the hat would also bring some style.
 
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What a bizarre tale.

I think it's funny because YOU didn't like the way you looked in the hat, but somehow the girls responded. Kind of puts the lie to the idea that you have to love the way you look before thers can appreciate it. Those two things are not always related, IMO.
I don't mind the way I look in the backwards hat, but I never thought the effect would be so dramatic.

I don't like the way I look without the hat with my hair buzzed short...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Are the females from lower class backgrounds?
No. The women I went out with last night has a really good job and is about to graduate from nursing school on top of that...I'll be posting a FR later when I get more time
 

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What a bizarre tale.

I think it's funny because YOU didn't like the way you looked in the hat, but somehow the girls responded. Kind of puts the lie to the idea that you have to love the way you look before thers can appreciate it. Those two things are not always related, IMO.
Bingo
 

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Again---I don't like the way I look WITHOUT the hat with my hair buzzed---which is why I started wearing the hat in the first place on the dates...but since I keep getting such great responses from it, I'm going to keep doing it even when my hair grows back...
 

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What kind of hat?

I always find hats on men to be kind of pretentious (except baseball caps), but you may be pulling it off well.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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