"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The Older Guy Theory

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Woman are attracted to older guys, right? Keep in mind I'm keeping this in a high school context.

Why is that? Is it because girls are attracted to maturity and older guys are more mature (and have cars)? Is it because older guys have more experience? Is it simply just the allure of the number and the fact that it's cooler to date an older guy?

When I first started high school I always complained that all the hot girls my age dated older guys. Some of these older guys were even duds, but they were older. Now, a few years later, I see guys my age that are AFC and closer to the bottom of the social chain picking up easily with younger chicks!

In any case it seems like it is now working for me, and you if you are in the top years of high school, and if you are younger you will have it on your side one day too.

Do you guys believe this? Any tips on how to use it best?


PS: Don't accuse this of being AFC. I am not discounting any DJ tactics in this thread, and like most people here (I hope) I have read the bible. cool:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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SinJester said:
Why is that? Is it because girls are attracted to maturity and older guys are more mature (and have cars)? Is it because older guys have more experience? Is it simply just the allure of the number and the fact that it's cooler to date an older guy?
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That's exactly it, though the thing is is that women assume these things just for the fact that you're older.
 
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They either view it as cooler or they are subconsciously looking for a father figure ie someone to protect them.

Another reason is that since older guys may have some form of status the chick can pump up her fragile ego by latching onto an older male with perceived high status since she cannot stand on her own.
 
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True, true. I wasn't so much asking a question as I was advocating discussion. Hasn't worked yet.

So basically older guys get a few extra points at the start? Sweet (if your older).

Still if what War Against Betaism said is true, it could eventually work against you when she finds out your AFC...
 
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My vote is for the maturity theory. My ex was telling me that I was much more mature than the last guy she was dating, even though he was something like 6 years older than me (I'm 23, she's 21). That's alright, I got some boob action from her last nite ;)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Some people say men look better the older they get..
 
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