"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Older Guy Theory

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Woman are attracted to older guys, right? Keep in mind I'm keeping this in a high school context.

Why is that? Is it because girls are attracted to maturity and older guys are more mature (and have cars)? Is it because older guys have more experience? Is it simply just the allure of the number and the fact that it's cooler to date an older guy?

When I first started high school I always complained that all the hot girls my age dated older guys. Some of these older guys were even duds, but they were older. Now, a few years later, I see guys my age that are AFC and closer to the bottom of the social chain picking up easily with younger chicks!

In any case it seems like it is now working for me, and you if you are in the top years of high school, and if you are younger you will have it on your side one day too.

Do you guys believe this? Any tips on how to use it best?


PS: Don't accuse this of being AFC. I am not discounting any DJ tactics in this thread, and like most people here (I hope) I have read the bible. cool:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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SinJester said:
Why is that? Is it because girls are attracted to maturity and older guys are more mature (and have cars)? Is it because older guys have more experience? Is it simply just the allure of the number and the fact that it's cooler to date an older guy?
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That's exactly it, though the thing is is that women assume these things just for the fact that you're older.
 
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They either view it as cooler or they are subconsciously looking for a father figure ie someone to protect them.

Another reason is that since older guys may have some form of status the chick can pump up her fragile ego by latching onto an older male with perceived high status since she cannot stand on her own.
 
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True, true. I wasn't so much asking a question as I was advocating discussion. Hasn't worked yet.

So basically older guys get a few extra points at the start? Sweet (if your older).

Still if what War Against Betaism said is true, it could eventually work against you when she finds out your AFC...
 
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My vote is for the maturity theory. My ex was telling me that I was much more mature than the last guy she was dating, even though he was something like 6 years older than me (I'm 23, she's 21). That's alright, I got some boob action from her last nite ;)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Some people say men look better the older they get..
 
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