"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Older Guy Theory

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Woman are attracted to older guys, right? Keep in mind I'm keeping this in a high school context.

Why is that? Is it because girls are attracted to maturity and older guys are more mature (and have cars)? Is it because older guys have more experience? Is it simply just the allure of the number and the fact that it's cooler to date an older guy?

When I first started high school I always complained that all the hot girls my age dated older guys. Some of these older guys were even duds, but they were older. Now, a few years later, I see guys my age that are AFC and closer to the bottom of the social chain picking up easily with younger chicks!

In any case it seems like it is now working for me, and you if you are in the top years of high school, and if you are younger you will have it on your side one day too.

Do you guys believe this? Any tips on how to use it best?


PS: Don't accuse this of being AFC. I am not discounting any DJ tactics in this thread, and like most people here (I hope) I have read the bible. cool:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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SinJester said:
Why is that? Is it because girls are attracted to maturity and older guys are more mature (and have cars)? Is it because older guys have more experience? Is it simply just the allure of the number and the fact that it's cooler to date an older guy?
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That's exactly it, though the thing is is that women assume these things just for the fact that you're older.
 
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They either view it as cooler or they are subconsciously looking for a father figure ie someone to protect them.

Another reason is that since older guys may have some form of status the chick can pump up her fragile ego by latching onto an older male with perceived high status since she cannot stand on her own.
 
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True, true. I wasn't so much asking a question as I was advocating discussion. Hasn't worked yet.

So basically older guys get a few extra points at the start? Sweet (if your older).

Still if what War Against Betaism said is true, it could eventually work against you when she finds out your AFC...
 
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My vote is for the maturity theory. My ex was telling me that I was much more mature than the last guy she was dating, even though he was something like 6 years older than me (I'm 23, she's 21). That's alright, I got some boob action from her last nite ;)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Some people say men look better the older they get..
 
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