"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The Older Guy Theory

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Woman are attracted to older guys, right? Keep in mind I'm keeping this in a high school context.

Why is that? Is it because girls are attracted to maturity and older guys are more mature (and have cars)? Is it because older guys have more experience? Is it simply just the allure of the number and the fact that it's cooler to date an older guy?

When I first started high school I always complained that all the hot girls my age dated older guys. Some of these older guys were even duds, but they were older. Now, a few years later, I see guys my age that are AFC and closer to the bottom of the social chain picking up easily with younger chicks!

In any case it seems like it is now working for me, and you if you are in the top years of high school, and if you are younger you will have it on your side one day too.

Do you guys believe this? Any tips on how to use it best?


PS: Don't accuse this of being AFC. I am not discounting any DJ tactics in this thread, and like most people here (I hope) I have read the bible. cool:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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SinJester said:
Why is that? Is it because girls are attracted to maturity and older guys are more mature (and have cars)? Is it because older guys have more experience? Is it simply just the allure of the number and the fact that it's cooler to date an older guy?
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That's exactly it, though the thing is is that women assume these things just for the fact that you're older.
 
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They either view it as cooler or they are subconsciously looking for a father figure ie someone to protect them.

Another reason is that since older guys may have some form of status the chick can pump up her fragile ego by latching onto an older male with perceived high status since she cannot stand on her own.
 
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True, true. I wasn't so much asking a question as I was advocating discussion. Hasn't worked yet.

So basically older guys get a few extra points at the start? Sweet (if your older).

Still if what War Against Betaism said is true, it could eventually work against you when she finds out your AFC...
 
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My vote is for the maturity theory. My ex was telling me that I was much more mature than the last guy she was dating, even though he was something like 6 years older than me (I'm 23, she's 21). That's alright, I got some boob action from her last nite ;)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Some people say men look better the older they get..
 
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