"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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With so many multiple threads on the same topics lets make an official one.

So many opinions on how to handle this. What I think from my experience if possible be calm cool and collected and accept the girl's proposal. Act like you are completely unaffected but take away the attention you have given her and openly Alpha yourself by indirectly showing what a great catch you are. You should basically consider the girl as nexted unless you truly value her friendship.

I disagree with with a lot have said to reject this; it shows you are affected and somewhat of a spoiled child in her view. Living well without her affecting your life is more attractive to her than anything.


If you read my Social Experiment I did this with a girl and she is sweating me like crazy. I value her as a friend which is why I keep her around but she definitely realizes she misses out. Just don't accept the LBJF as a ploy to get her because she isn't worth it. Let whatever happens as a result of it happen naturally.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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jayer,
I agree with your points. One thing I do not belive on this board is nexting. My philosophy is of you can't have her then be friends with her becuase she might have some hot roommates or other friends that she can introduce you too.
What I don't like is girls, when you try to be their friends, not even giving you the time of day. But then when they need something, they call you out of the blue and ask you to do them a favor.

I think most guys will get ticked off when they get flaked on, but I think the ones that handle life the best are the ones that can say, oh well, laugh it off, and on to the next target.
 
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I agree..... its just that I think a lot of girls just give the LJBF line without really meaning it and just use it as a nexter for you........

If it isn't genuine you really have no shot with her friends anyways cause she has little respect for you
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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My plan and back up plan for a girl who LJBFs me
Plan A) Mention something about another girl I'm seeing. Something like "yeah this girl I'm seeing she goes to that place too...". Jealousy is a powerful thing.
Plan B) If A doesn't work then I delete her number. 60% of the time they call a few weeks later. Then you can make a fresh start.
 
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is the LJBF line only for americans or what? i've never heard "let's just be friend" line in my high school (canada), high schoolers don't use it?
 
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