"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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With so many multiple threads on the same topics lets make an official one.

So many opinions on how to handle this. What I think from my experience if possible be calm cool and collected and accept the girl's proposal. Act like you are completely unaffected but take away the attention you have given her and openly Alpha yourself by indirectly showing what a great catch you are. You should basically consider the girl as nexted unless you truly value her friendship.

I disagree with with a lot have said to reject this; it shows you are affected and somewhat of a spoiled child in her view. Living well without her affecting your life is more attractive to her than anything.


If you read my Social Experiment I did this with a girl and she is sweating me like crazy. I value her as a friend which is why I keep her around but she definitely realizes she misses out. Just don't accept the LBJF as a ploy to get her because she isn't worth it. Let whatever happens as a result of it happen naturally.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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jayer,
I agree with your points. One thing I do not belive on this board is nexting. My philosophy is of you can't have her then be friends with her becuase she might have some hot roommates or other friends that she can introduce you too.
What I don't like is girls, when you try to be their friends, not even giving you the time of day. But then when they need something, they call you out of the blue and ask you to do them a favor.

I think most guys will get ticked off when they get flaked on, but I think the ones that handle life the best are the ones that can say, oh well, laugh it off, and on to the next target.
 
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I agree..... its just that I think a lot of girls just give the LJBF line without really meaning it and just use it as a nexter for you........

If it isn't genuine you really have no shot with her friends anyways cause she has little respect for you
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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My plan and back up plan for a girl who LJBFs me
Plan A) Mention something about another girl I'm seeing. Something like "yeah this girl I'm seeing she goes to that place too...". Jealousy is a powerful thing.
Plan B) If A doesn't work then I delete her number. 60% of the time they call a few weeks later. Then you can make a fresh start.
 
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is the LJBF line only for americans or what? i've never heard "let's just be friend" line in my high school (canada), high schoolers don't use it?
 
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