"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
The official cure for Oneitis
- Thread starter bigneil
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
DonJuanabe
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youngmack
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She looked better than ever. she was thick in all the right places. And it just so happens that thick girls is a super turn on for me !, not fat but thick. Which made me suffer even more.....Just my fuccing luck
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
and she got fat,
getting with a cooler girl
gettin with a hotter girl
getting in a 3way session with 2HB9's
getting a notepad full of numbers of non flaky girls after 1 day on GODMODE!!!!
youngmack
Master Don Juan
WOAHDonJuanabe said:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Purefilth said:
Yup that'll do it. I can also add realizing they're so much better quality out there. Sex on demand , sex at work , hotter women noticing you , busy life .
youngmack
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Lmao i was about to sayDonJuanabe said:"WOAH" - hasn't actually happened to me, just saying it would make moving on a heck of a lot easier.
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You stop contacting.
That's it. Done it many times. Can do it to anyone but my family today, if they cross my boundaries. Elementary stuff.
It's actually a lot easier than what a lot of neophytes make it to be.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
