"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
The official cure for Oneitis
- Thread starter bigneil
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
DonJuanabe
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youngmack
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She looked better than ever. she was thick in all the right places. And it just so happens that thick girls is a super turn on for me !, not fat but thick. Which made me suffer even more.....Just my fuccing luck
Purefilth
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and she got fat,
getting with a cooler girl
gettin with a hotter girl
getting in a 3way session with 2HB9's
getting a notepad full of numbers of non flaky girls after 1 day on GODMODE!!!!
youngmack
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WOAHDonJuanabe said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Purefilth said:
Yup that'll do it. I can also add realizing they're so much better quality out there. Sex on demand , sex at work , hotter women noticing you , busy life .
youngmack
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Lmao i was about to sayDonJuanabe said:"WOAH" - hasn't actually happened to me, just saying it would make moving on a heck of a lot easier.
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You stop contacting.
That's it. Done it many times. Can do it to anyone but my family today, if they cross my boundaries. Elementary stuff.
It's actually a lot easier than what a lot of neophytes make it to be.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
