"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
DonJuanabe
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youngmack
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She looked better than ever. she was thick in all the right places. And it just so happens that thick girls is a super turn on for me !, not fat but thick. Which made me suffer even more.....Just my fuccing luck
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
and she got fat,
getting with a cooler girl
gettin with a hotter girl
getting in a 3way session with 2HB9's
getting a notepad full of numbers of non flaky girls after 1 day on GODMODE!!!!
youngmack
Master Don Juan
WOAHDonJuanabe said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
DonJuanabe
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Purefilth said:
Yup that'll do it. I can also add realizing they're so much better quality out there. Sex on demand , sex at work , hotter women noticing you , busy life .
youngmack
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Lmao i was about to sayDonJuanabe said:"WOAH" - hasn't actually happened to me, just saying it would make moving on a heck of a lot easier.
Boilermaker
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You stop contacting.
That's it. Done it many times. Can do it to anyone but my family today, if they cross my boundaries. Elementary stuff.
It's actually a lot easier than what a lot of neophytes make it to be.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
