"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The offical Sosuave no fap challenge (Let's get it!)

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"Be the change in the world you want to see"--Ghandi

This thread was inspired by this thread(click you idiot)

Right now I'm on Day 3

I already feel more energetic, I did this also earlier this year for 30 days back in December-January. Noticed a huge difference in my libido, mood as well as my motivation for chicks/approaching.

Testerone affects everyting not just your sex drive but

Your outlook on life
Your motivation
Your confidence
your tonality and voice tone
your moods
Your strength

I'm going for 40 days this time around

Whose with me

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dam... failed. OK i'll start again now!

Failed.. dam

OK now!
 

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im going to incorporate this into the 3rd Gladiator AA competition.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I have done 40 days multiple times. I think today is about Day... 7? Might as well be in.
 

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I haven't masturbated in a while , but I've had sex the last two nights , id participate , but if already stopped touching myself , and not letting girls do it is where I draw the straw
 

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cablecow15 said:
I haven't masturbated in a while , but I've had sex the last two nights , id participate , but if already stopped touching myself , and not letting girls do it is where I draw the straw

mmh technically having sex with a girl isn't fapping
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Starting now. Only time i'll jizz is when i nob me bird
 

cablecow15

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Solomon said:
mmh technically having sex with a girl isn't fapping
its still ejaculation tho , and it wont provide the buildup of testosterone energy , that comes from saving your boys , not how you do it
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I do this occasionally and I certainly feel more virile at a certain point. My sexual appetite seems to peak around the 7-10 day mark and then progressively diminish until I ejaculate again. It's weird, but abstaining for more than 10 days actually makes me LESS interested in sex. Your results may vary. I'd definitely recommend giving it a go.
 

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I'm on day 4 already might as well join. Most I've ever gone without doing it is 2 weeks. Lets see if I can double that this time
 

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Why do u guys do this? Day 8.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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