"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The offical Sosuave no fap challenge (Let's get it!)

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"Be the change in the world you want to see"--Ghandi

This thread was inspired by this thread(click you idiot)

Right now I'm on Day 3

I already feel more energetic, I did this also earlier this year for 30 days back in December-January. Noticed a huge difference in my libido, mood as well as my motivation for chicks/approaching.

Testerone affects everyting not just your sex drive but

Your outlook on life
Your motivation
Your confidence
your tonality and voice tone
your moods
Your strength

I'm going for 40 days this time around

Whose with me

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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SgtSplacker

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Dam... failed. OK i'll start again now!

Failed.. dam

OK now!
 

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im going to incorporate this into the 3rd Gladiator AA competition.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I have done 40 days multiple times. I think today is about Day... 7? Might as well be in.
 

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I haven't masturbated in a while , but I've had sex the last two nights , id participate , but if already stopped touching myself , and not letting girls do it is where I draw the straw
 

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cablecow15 said:
I haven't masturbated in a while , but I've had sex the last two nights , id participate , but if already stopped touching myself , and not letting girls do it is where I draw the straw

mmh technically having sex with a girl isn't fapping
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Starting now. Only time i'll jizz is when i nob me bird
 

cablecow15

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Solomon said:
mmh technically having sex with a girl isn't fapping
its still ejaculation tho , and it wont provide the buildup of testosterone energy , that comes from saving your boys , not how you do it
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I do this occasionally and I certainly feel more virile at a certain point. My sexual appetite seems to peak around the 7-10 day mark and then progressively diminish until I ejaculate again. It's weird, but abstaining for more than 10 days actually makes me LESS interested in sex. Your results may vary. I'd definitely recommend giving it a go.
 

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I'm on day 4 already might as well join. Most I've ever gone without doing it is 2 weeks. Lets see if I can double that this time
 

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Why do u guys do this? Day 8.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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