"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The offical Sosuave no fap challenge (Let's get it!)

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"Be the change in the world you want to see"--Ghandi

This thread was inspired by this thread(click you idiot)

Right now I'm on Day 3

I already feel more energetic, I did this also earlier this year for 30 days back in December-January. Noticed a huge difference in my libido, mood as well as my motivation for chicks/approaching.

Testerone affects everyting not just your sex drive but

Your outlook on life
Your motivation
Your confidence
your tonality and voice tone
your moods
Your strength

I'm going for 40 days this time around

Whose with me

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dam... failed. OK i'll start again now!

Failed.. dam

OK now!
 
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im going to incorporate this into the 3rd Gladiator AA competition.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I have done 40 days multiple times. I think today is about Day... 7? Might as well be in.
 
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I haven't masturbated in a while , but I've had sex the last two nights , id participate , but if already stopped touching myself , and not letting girls do it is where I draw the straw
 
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cablecow15 said:
I haven't masturbated in a while , but I've had sex the last two nights , id participate , but if already stopped touching myself , and not letting girls do it is where I draw the straw
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mmh technically having sex with a girl isn't fapping
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Starting now. Only time i'll jizz is when i nob me bird
 
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Solomon said:
mmh technically having sex with a girl isn't fapping
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its still ejaculation tho , and it wont provide the buildup of testosterone energy , that comes from saving your boys , not how you do it
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I do this occasionally and I certainly feel more virile at a certain point. My sexual appetite seems to peak around the 7-10 day mark and then progressively diminish until I ejaculate again. It's weird, but abstaining for more than 10 days actually makes me LESS interested in sex. Your results may vary. I'd definitely recommend giving it a go.
 
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I'm on day 4 already might as well join. Most I've ever gone without doing it is 2 weeks. Lets see if I can double that this time
 
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Why do u guys do this? Day 8.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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