"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
about 250. most of those are the cute wooley sheep.
this is more of a bragging thread, who cares how many females you been with. and on that note, i knew this chick who swore up and down she slept with 235 diffrent guys.
i dunno if she was bragging or warning us, about possible infection if you sleep with her =/
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
But I also pass on a lot of offers. I don't know, I'm not all about sex, I like the hunt and sometimes I feel that I could tag a girl from the first word then I often lose all interest.
But that's just me personally... I guess I'm kinda weird.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Literally lost count, but I am 36 years old, been goin out since 16, then a 10 year marriage during which I had maybe 20 flings. Average say, one a fortnight for maybe 10 years plus 20 = 280.
Sounds too much, cant be right.
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
WTF!?!?!? you cheted on your wife 20 times!
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I-am-someone
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CableLight
Master Don Juan
AHAHA
It's nice to see someone who doesn't descriminate
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.