"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
about 250. most of those are the cute wooley sheep.
this is more of a bragging thread, who cares how many females you been with. and on that note, i knew this chick who swore up and down she slept with 235 diffrent guys.
i dunno if she was bragging or warning us, about possible infection if you sleep with her =/
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
But I also pass on a lot of offers. I don't know, I'm not all about sex, I like the hunt and sometimes I feel that I could tag a girl from the first word then I often lose all interest.
But that's just me personally... I guess I'm kinda weird.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Literally lost count, but I am 36 years old, been goin out since 16, then a 10 year marriage during which I had maybe 20 flings. Average say, one a fortnight for maybe 10 years plus 20 = 280.
Sounds too much, cant be right.
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
WTF!?!?!? you cheted on your wife 20 times!
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CableLight
Master Don Juan
AHAHA
It's nice to see someone who doesn't descriminate
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.