"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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the number of AFC's around...

mr.uk

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It amazes me! My mums friend's daughter came over today and was bragging about how she spent £2 on a night out last night.

She said if she smiles at a guy, shes guarenteed a drink out of him.

This made me realise..do not underestimate the power of what you read on here. Its damn good stuff and it sets you in a better light than 90% of the other dudes out there just from certain little rules!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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mr.uk said:
It amazes me! My mums friend's daughter came over today and was bragging about how she spent £2 on a night out last night.

She said if she smiles at a guy, shes guarenteed a drink out of him.

This made me realise..do not underestimate the power of what you read on here. Its damn good stuff and it sets you in a better light than 90% of the other dudes out there just from certain little rules!
Not me, boy. If she lets me put my tongue down her throat at the bar, and feel up her ass, I'll buy her a shot. Thats for sure. But a smile will only buy another smile. :crackup:
 

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huh gotta check ebay for a smiling blow-up doll >> im sure ill get alot of alcohol <3
 

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mr.uk said:
It amazes me! My mums friend's daughter came over today and was bragging about how she spent £2 on a night out last night.

She said if she smiles at a guy, shes guarenteed a drink out of him.

This made me realise..do not underestimate the power of what you read on here. Its damn good stuff and it sets you in a better light than 90% of the other dudes out there just from certain little rules!
Yes, it's good sh*t.
 

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Congrats Snowdog!! You got your post count up another one. I bet Mommy is proud.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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mr.uk said:
It amazes me! My mums friend's daughter came over today and was bragging about how she spent £2 on a night out last night.

She said if she smiles at a guy, shes guarenteed a drink out of him.

This made me realise..do not underestimate the power of what you read on here. Its damn good stuff and it sets you in a better light than 90% of the other dudes out there just from certain little rules!
Probably more than 90%!! I'd say out of the male population today, its like 95% AFC, 4% Naturals, and 1% PUA/DJ/whatever.

This stuff is a lot more powerful than ppl give it credit for, and even if you're a rAFC, you'll still probably be better than the majority of guys out there. Thats why I want the community to be small and underground - we still have an advantage that way. :D
 

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Twice last week i had girls ask me to buy them drinks. Both times I look at them right in the eyes, and in the most serious and calm voice I say "I dont buy drinks, girls buy them for me", and in both cases they bought me a shot. Ive only bought 1 drink for a girl at a bar this year. And that was because I bottle knocked her, and it foamed and spewed everywhere. She ended up going home with me that night.
 

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L777 said:
Probably more than 90%!! I'd say out of the male population today, its like 95% AFC, 4% Naturals, and 1% PUA/DJ/whatever.

This stuff is a lot more powerful than ppl give it credit for, and even if you're a rAFC, you'll still probably be better than the majority of guys out there. Thats why I want the community to be small and underground - we still have an advantage that way. :D
i never ever knew there were so many ppl reading sosuave / Daviddeangelo whatever
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Enryu said:
i never ever knew there were so many ppl reading sosuave / Daviddeangelo whatever
If you're looking at the percentage of the male population it's very small I would imagine. And for those who do read David Deangelo etc you need to ask how many people put what they learn into practise? Even those who try to improve face a hard road and many quit etc so you're left with a tiny amount.

As L777 said it's an advantage for us to remain small and underground. :up:
 

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Its actually good IMO to have AFCs around. I got schooled by DJs/Naturals when I was younger and an AFC. Now, I'm schooling the AFCs.

I concur with above statements, were at an advantage to remain underground. (No thanks to Mystery)
 

Lord Shinra

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Its actually good IMO to have AFCs around. I got schooled by DJs/Naturals when I was younger and an AFC. Now, I'm schooling the AFCs.

I concur with above statements, were at an advantage to remain underground. (No thanks to Mystery)
 
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