"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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the number of AFC's around...

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It amazes me! My mums friend's daughter came over today and was bragging about how she spent £2 on a night out last night.

She said if she smiles at a guy, shes guarenteed a drink out of him.

This made me realise..do not underestimate the power of what you read on here. Its damn good stuff and it sets you in a better light than 90% of the other dudes out there just from certain little rules!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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mr.uk said:
It amazes me! My mums friend's daughter came over today and was bragging about how she spent £2 on a night out last night.

She said if she smiles at a guy, shes guarenteed a drink out of him.

This made me realise..do not underestimate the power of what you read on here. Its damn good stuff and it sets you in a better light than 90% of the other dudes out there just from certain little rules!
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Not me, boy. If she lets me put my tongue down her throat at the bar, and feel up her ass, I'll buy her a shot. Thats for sure. But a smile will only buy another smile. :crackup:
 
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huh gotta check ebay for a smiling blow-up doll >> im sure ill get alot of alcohol <3
 
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mr.uk said:
It amazes me! My mums friend's daughter came over today and was bragging about how she spent £2 on a night out last night.

She said if she smiles at a guy, shes guarenteed a drink out of him.

This made me realise..do not underestimate the power of what you read on here. Its damn good stuff and it sets you in a better light than 90% of the other dudes out there just from certain little rules!
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Yes, it's good sh*t.
 
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Congrats Snowdog!! You got your post count up another one. I bet Mommy is proud.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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mr.uk said:
It amazes me! My mums friend's daughter came over today and was bragging about how she spent £2 on a night out last night.

She said if she smiles at a guy, shes guarenteed a drink out of him.

This made me realise..do not underestimate the power of what you read on here. Its damn good stuff and it sets you in a better light than 90% of the other dudes out there just from certain little rules!
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Probably more than 90%!! I'd say out of the male population today, its like 95% AFC, 4% Naturals, and 1% PUA/DJ/whatever.

This stuff is a lot more powerful than ppl give it credit for, and even if you're a rAFC, you'll still probably be better than the majority of guys out there. Thats why I want the community to be small and underground - we still have an advantage that way. :D
 
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Twice last week i had girls ask me to buy them drinks. Both times I look at them right in the eyes, and in the most serious and calm voice I say "I dont buy drinks, girls buy them for me", and in both cases they bought me a shot. Ive only bought 1 drink for a girl at a bar this year. And that was because I bottle knocked her, and it foamed and spewed everywhere. She ended up going home with me that night.
 
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L777 said:
Probably more than 90%!! I'd say out of the male population today, its like 95% AFC, 4% Naturals, and 1% PUA/DJ/whatever.

This stuff is a lot more powerful than ppl give it credit for, and even if you're a rAFC, you'll still probably be better than the majority of guys out there. Thats why I want the community to be small and underground - we still have an advantage that way. :D
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i never ever knew there were so many ppl reading sosuave / Daviddeangelo whatever
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Enryu said:
i never ever knew there were so many ppl reading sosuave / Daviddeangelo whatever
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If you're looking at the percentage of the male population it's very small I would imagine. And for those who do read David Deangelo etc you need to ask how many people put what they learn into practise? Even those who try to improve face a hard road and many quit etc so you're left with a tiny amount.

As L777 said it's an advantage for us to remain small and underground. :up:
 
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Its actually good IMO to have AFCs around. I got schooled by DJs/Naturals when I was younger and an AFC. Now, I'm schooling the AFCs.

I concur with above statements, were at an advantage to remain underground. (No thanks to Mystery)
 
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Its actually good IMO to have AFCs around. I got schooled by DJs/Naturals when I was younger and an AFC. Now, I'm schooling the AFCs.

I concur with above statements, were at an advantage to remain underground. (No thanks to Mystery)
 
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