"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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toddC

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This is yet another one of my problems...not such a big one but its a problem none the less...

Okay, so I'll give you guys a few examples of what I'm in now.

EX1: Theres this HB8 in my GYM class that I talk to everyday. Me and her share some good flirting and some decent talks but I really don't know what to say to get her #. Liek I can't just be hey lemme get your # for incase i need homework with physed HW!! :p

EX2: In another class of mine (Science) this HB 7.5 sits right next to me. Again we share some flirting and sh*t but I'm really not sure on how to approach the # close in either of these situatinos..

I mean don't get me wrong I pretty much hang with both these girls like 2-3 times a month (by chance we are at same party etc..) but I'd liek to have their #'s jsut to be like hey wanna chill...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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oakraiderz2

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We should hang out sometime...ITS THAT SIMPLE. I dont see how some of yall plan on graduating hs school and taking calculus 18 v 9.0 when you dont know how to ASK for a girls number.
 

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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
We should hang out sometime...ITS THAT SIMPLE. I dont see how some of yall plan on graduating hs school and taking calculus 18 v 9.0 when you dont know how to ASK for a girls number.
 

toddC

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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
We should hang out sometime...ITS THAT SIMPLE. I dont see how some of yall plan on graduating hs school and taking calculus 18 v 9.0 when you dont know how to ASK for a girls number.
Liek I said this isn't a HUGE problem for me as I have about 75% of all HOT girls in my grade's # just not these 2 and I thought hey why not ask...
 

oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by toddC
Liek I said this isn't a HUGE problem for me as I have about 75% of all HOT girls in my grade's # just not these 2 and I thought hey why not ask...
Wow, youve impressed me.:rolleyes: You and the HOT girls number you have.:moon:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"Hey those are really cool shoes! We should hangout sometime." :crackup:
 

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After class say "Damn! I forgot to write down the HW....i gotta get to class quick to turn something in....but give me your number and ill get the HW from you then"

~Smooth
 

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Howabout not giving a false pretense? Asking for a number for HW is lame, it'll get you FZ'd more often than not, because you haven't given her anything to say "I want to bang you like a rusty gate"

Of course, there's always C&F, kino, negging, etc etc before hand. But, if you just close with that, you'll lose.

Syn.
 

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dont ask for a number unless there are obvious signs that she would even be remotely interested.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
After class say "Damn! I forgot to write down the HW....i gotta get to class quick to turn something in....but give me your number and ill get the HW from you then"

~Smooth
Don't sneak numbers like this because then when you call them they won't be as likely to shut you down if tell them you want to hang out a head of time.
 
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