"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This is yet another one of my problems...not such a big one but its a problem none the less...

Okay, so I'll give you guys a few examples of what I'm in now.

EX1: Theres this HB8 in my GYM class that I talk to everyday. Me and her share some good flirting and some decent talks but I really don't know what to say to get her #. Liek I can't just be hey lemme get your # for incase i need homework with physed HW!! :p

EX2: In another class of mine (Science) this HB 7.5 sits right next to me. Again we share some flirting and sh*t but I'm really not sure on how to approach the # close in either of these situatinos..

I mean don't get me wrong I pretty much hang with both these girls like 2-3 times a month (by chance we are at same party etc..) but I'd liek to have their #'s jsut to be like hey wanna chill...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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We should hang out sometime...ITS THAT SIMPLE. I dont see how some of yall plan on graduating hs school and taking calculus 18 v 9.0 when you dont know how to ASK for a girls number.
 

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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
We should hang out sometime...ITS THAT SIMPLE. I dont see how some of yall plan on graduating hs school and taking calculus 18 v 9.0 when you dont know how to ASK for a girls number.
 

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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
We should hang out sometime...ITS THAT SIMPLE. I dont see how some of yall plan on graduating hs school and taking calculus 18 v 9.0 when you dont know how to ASK for a girls number.
Liek I said this isn't a HUGE problem for me as I have about 75% of all HOT girls in my grade's # just not these 2 and I thought hey why not ask...
 

oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by toddC
Liek I said this isn't a HUGE problem for me as I have about 75% of all HOT girls in my grade's # just not these 2 and I thought hey why not ask...
Wow, youve impressed me.:rolleyes: You and the HOT girls number you have.:moon:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"Hey those are really cool shoes! We should hangout sometime." :crackup:
 

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After class say "Damn! I forgot to write down the HW....i gotta get to class quick to turn something in....but give me your number and ill get the HW from you then"

~Smooth
 

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Howabout not giving a false pretense? Asking for a number for HW is lame, it'll get you FZ'd more often than not, because you haven't given her anything to say "I want to bang you like a rusty gate"

Of course, there's always C&F, kino, negging, etc etc before hand. But, if you just close with that, you'll lose.

Syn.
 

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dont ask for a number unless there are obvious signs that she would even be remotely interested.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
After class say "Damn! I forgot to write down the HW....i gotta get to class quick to turn something in....but give me your number and ill get the HW from you then"

~Smooth
Don't sneak numbers like this because then when you call them they won't be as likely to shut you down if tell them you want to hang out a head of time.
 
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