"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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This is yet another one of my problems...not such a big one but its a problem none the less...

Okay, so I'll give you guys a few examples of what I'm in now.

EX1: Theres this HB8 in my GYM class that I talk to everyday. Me and her share some good flirting and some decent talks but I really don't know what to say to get her #. Liek I can't just be hey lemme get your # for incase i need homework with physed HW!! :p

EX2: In another class of mine (Science) this HB 7.5 sits right next to me. Again we share some flirting and sh*t but I'm really not sure on how to approach the # close in either of these situatinos..

I mean don't get me wrong I pretty much hang with both these girls like 2-3 times a month (by chance we are at same party etc..) but I'd liek to have their #'s jsut to be like hey wanna chill...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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We should hang out sometime...ITS THAT SIMPLE. I dont see how some of yall plan on graduating hs school and taking calculus 18 v 9.0 when you dont know how to ASK for a girls number.
 

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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
We should hang out sometime...ITS THAT SIMPLE. I dont see how some of yall plan on graduating hs school and taking calculus 18 v 9.0 when you dont know how to ASK for a girls number.
 

toddC

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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
We should hang out sometime...ITS THAT SIMPLE. I dont see how some of yall plan on graduating hs school and taking calculus 18 v 9.0 when you dont know how to ASK for a girls number.
Liek I said this isn't a HUGE problem for me as I have about 75% of all HOT girls in my grade's # just not these 2 and I thought hey why not ask...
 

oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by toddC
Liek I said this isn't a HUGE problem for me as I have about 75% of all HOT girls in my grade's # just not these 2 and I thought hey why not ask...
Wow, youve impressed me.:rolleyes: You and the HOT girls number you have.:moon:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"Hey those are really cool shoes! We should hangout sometime." :crackup:
 

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After class say "Damn! I forgot to write down the HW....i gotta get to class quick to turn something in....but give me your number and ill get the HW from you then"

~Smooth
 

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Howabout not giving a false pretense? Asking for a number for HW is lame, it'll get you FZ'd more often than not, because you haven't given her anything to say "I want to bang you like a rusty gate"

Of course, there's always C&F, kino, negging, etc etc before hand. But, if you just close with that, you'll lose.

Syn.
 

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dont ask for a number unless there are obvious signs that she would even be remotely interested.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
After class say "Damn! I forgot to write down the HW....i gotta get to class quick to turn something in....but give me your number and ill get the HW from you then"

~Smooth
Don't sneak numbers like this because then when you call them they won't be as likely to shut you down if tell them you want to hang out a head of time.
 
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