The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

[TBG]

Don't let some stupid feelings eat away at you. Be dirty, be a dirty wh0re, be something but promise me to not feel "in love" while she is getting ready for the c0ck carousel.

Pretty much my outlook the past few days.

Was considering breaking no contact to wish her happy birthday on Thursday but then I thought **** that. Whilst she's reading it she'll be out with that other guy and end up ****ing. So **** moping about.

Hopped back on Tinder and Bumble. Set up a date for Thursday. Started talking to a milf that asked the "so what you looking for" question and instead of doing what I'd normally do and say I want to see where things go, I told her I want nothing serious. Thought that would be the end of it but she replies back saying she wants the same and to come over this weekend. Okay.

Also just had an offer accepted on a flat so there's something to keep my busy

 

[Murk]

Day 22 -

She added me as a friend on snapchat last night. I woke up this morning for work and checked my phone in shock. I can now message her. I won’t. I have too much going on now in my life. I just feel a tiny bit of victory here.

The journey continues.

 

[Rapport101]

Day 1)

Right after we broke up you were already in another relationship. You tried to lie about it but got caught. You are a pathetic loser and I don’t ever want to hear or speak to you again. I hate you so much. You are the most repugnant person in the entire planet. I am better than you in every way. Words can not describe how much I hate you. I wish you’d fall off a cliff. My family and friends hate you. I’m the only one that likes you out of everyone I know

 

[Rapport101]

****. I already ruined no contact. I sent her a message saying sorry I was busy when she responded to a message I had sent earlier about having a girl here with a tramp stamp. Now she’s going to respond. I’m going to delete her response and never talk to her again.

 

[Rapport101]

I’m sorry. I just love you so much and want you here right now. I miss you every time you’re not around and life just isn’t the same without you. You are my angel. You’re like the sunrise to my morning, the light to my day, without you, life isn’t the same. I sent you a message earlier about a girl with a tramp stamp, even though I wasn’t with one, because I wanted to **** with your head you stupid *****. You hurt mynfeelings

 

[Rapport101]

Sorry guys. Just broke up with my cheating *****. I’ve got a better job, better teeth, better family, better vehicle, more money, better heart, better mind, really she doesn’t compare in any way. She is below me. It should’ve been me scrapping her off my boot. Somehow I tucked up. I made mistakes. I uknkwlingky became the weaker party. She tried to keep me as a question mark but I became a period. She will be nothing to me in weeks from now. She is nothing. She is a lie.

 

[Rapport101]

There was no girl with a tramp stamp. I made that **** up just to **** with you. I want to crush you, but I won’t. I keep switching to you trying to send this. I can’t though. You are my everything. But I can’t tell you anymore. I keep thinking to say that one day I’ll show you. But I will never. I can’t send

 

[Rapport101]

I just cheat messaged her again. I’m not very good at this. But it’s hard to picture life without her. I truly cared for this girl, and she ruined it. I try to be mean but always end up nice. Why can’t I get her off my mind. Why can’t this breakup be easy. Why couldn’t she have not been such a *****. I have to end it, for myself. But I can’t at the same time. I hate his.

 

[Murk]

MELTDOWWWWWN

 

[TBG]

After two weeks of no contact she text me saying, "Still don't wanna be my pal no?".

Things didn't end badly, didn't burn any bridges but I clearly told her I don't see her as friend. I'm guessing the other guy isn't as invested as she is into the relationship she built up in her head.

 

[TBG]

And she breaks again after not replying to say "Ignore me that's also fine".

 

[Murk]

So my ex viewed all my snapchat stories on Friday night, she saw me having fun. So she removes me on there and continues to watch me. I’m tempted to block her but part of me wants her to see me having fun and being the life and soul.

 

[Murk]

RESET!!!!

Chat over text, straight off the bat she's on the attack, wanting to bring up how selfish I am, don't care about anyone or realise the words I say can hurt people.

Honestly this girl is a snowflake, she called me a loud, aggressive bully.

I'm none of that, just way too assertive and alpha for her, she even said "Don't you think I'll find a nice guy to treat me well" - she want's some quite reserved type, that's not me, it never was and never will be. We are just so incompatible.

By the sounds of it she hasn't found anyone or gotten laid yet, so I'm winning because I've had the most debauched 2 weeks in a long while and have a girl I'm seeing already. So in that sense I feel some sense of relief. I was way too good for this girl.

I'm resetting back to day 1, but I won't be recording anything any more, I'm so done. The relationship was a joke and she is already being replaced. Part of me wishes I told her that as a final blow, but I have more integrity than that.

 

[TBG]

And she's text again, "Well even if you are ignoring me and don't ever want to be my friend (which Is fine) I shall be wondering about town tomorrow so should you be at a loss for anything to do, which I'm sure you won't be, feel free to partake"

Still ignoring

 

[Murk]

Fvck her. She can’t have her cake and eat it too. You keep up that NC brother and she will reach out when old boy inevitably pumps and dumps. Hopefully by then bumble and tinder have paid some dividends

 

[TBG]

Yeah man that's my mindset.

One of the last messages she sent to me before dumping me was about how it wouldn't be fair on me, her or him if we still hung out as she needed to be able to tell him me and her are 100% "just friends".

I think he already has humped and dumped her after coming back. He's just got back after two months of being away. It's her birthday weekend, yet she's texting me on a Saturday night and wants to see me tomorrow.

 

[Murk]

Yep either that or he hasn’t treated her as good as she thought, I mean why would he she waited for him to come back and spread her legs instantaneously.

No challenge = no respect

 

[QuadDeuces]

Don't send any Valentine's wishes to your exes boys, keep them wondering.

 

[TBG]

This one is relentless.

After not hearing from her for a couple days she text "You either want to hang out or you don't. And I understand if you don't. People have dropped me left right and centre since my "relationship status" changed. Certainly shown who had an agenda ha"

This time I did reply and basically told her I'm not interested in friends, I'm not a place holder (again) whilst he's around and why should I continue to invest into something which I get nothing out off to which she replied "Well that makes me feel like you're saying "why should I hang out with you when I could spend the time looking for a girlfriend". I'm not asking for investment or to see you all the time. I don't understand why you don't want to salvage a friendship from this. I hoped we could still hang out occasionally seeing we've know each other for a while and get on really way. I still understand why it doesn't mesh with me having a boyfriend but people adapt don't they. Also i wasn't getting in contact because I needed attention or because things were going bad between me and him, said relationship is going well. Other people might but I'm not like most people"

Didn't bother replying. She just doesn't seem to get that she can't have the best of both worlds. She made her decision now she has to live with it.

 

[Murk]

Haha she actually had to tell you things were going great with the bf, yeah so great she’s seeking attention from a guy she used to bang. Women make me sick sometimes.

I would never message her again, it’s done.