Hi guys, I lost count but my ex broke up with me on the phone in May. I kept no contact for 3 months and later we started chatting everyday by text a couple of months ago. He's not well and is under going severe counselling. He was a nice guy so I don't think its a good idea to ignore him at this time of need.
Well I am moving to a new flat next week and there wasn't anyone to help me dismantle my furniture so he agreed to help me . He drove from Worcester to London to help me move these things and we shared a hotel room that night. We didn't have sex but I noticed all night he kept turning and at some point his hand was around me, hugging me .
We were up the next day for lunch, then we took a walk to my new place and then we got back home how him to drive back, I noticed his mood has changed and he looked all unhappy.
I asked what's wrong and he excused himself and went to the bathroom where I could hear him sobbing .
When he came back into the room I asked him to talk to me cos and he was like
- I am scared of letting you alone, I don't know if you will be alright. Am sorry about the way I ended things with you.... He was sobbing heavily and at this stage we were both hugging and sobbing together. He said he had to take counselling because he had a lot going on that made him so angry with everyone around him. And he noticed he was taking some of those angar on me and it was making me unhappy. And that his family and friends said it wasn't a good idea be was coming to London to see me . He said he had a great time and I reminded him of when we were dating and that he will like us to stay friends and that I can visit him any time - he promised to keep in touch.
Well we sobbed and hugged and he left.
Last time I heard from him was yesterday when he got home and sent me a me a message he got in and was thankin me for the gift I got him.
Well I accept I cried for hours after that. It felt like same break up a second time around.
I miss him but I have decided to check on him like once a month just to know his counselling is going ok. He's the one that got away but I know I will survive
What I don't get is why he sobs and worries about me when he was the one who ended things
Well I am moving to a new flat next week and there wasn't anyone to help me dismantle my furniture so he agreed to help me . He drove from Worcester to London to help me move these things and we shared a hotel room that night. We didn't have sex but I noticed all night he kept turning and at some point his hand was around me, hugging me .
We were up the next day for lunch, then we took a walk to my new place and then we got back home how him to drive back, I noticed his mood has changed and he looked all unhappy.
I asked what's wrong and he excused himself and went to the bathroom where I could hear him sobbing .
When he came back into the room I asked him to talk to me cos and he was like
- I am scared of letting you alone, I don't know if you will be alright. Am sorry about the way I ended things with you.... He was sobbing heavily and at this stage we were both hugging and sobbing together. He said he had to take counselling because he had a lot going on that made him so angry with everyone around him. And he noticed he was taking some of those angar on me and it was making me unhappy. And that his family and friends said it wasn't a good idea be was coming to London to see me . He said he had a great time and I reminded him of when we were dating and that he will like us to stay friends and that I can visit him any time - he promised to keep in touch.
Well we sobbed and hugged and he left.
Last time I heard from him was yesterday when he got home and sent me a me a message he got in and was thankin me for the gift I got him.
Well I accept I cried for hours after that. It felt like same break up a second time around.
I miss him but I have decided to check on him like once a month just to know his counselling is going ok. He's the one that got away but I know I will survive
What I don't get is why he sobs and worries about me when he was the one who ended things
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