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Should not concern you in the least. It's sad that we have come to a point where game playing is no longer done in person, but rather via social media. My most recent ex, after we split, used to like my mother's comments and pictures and invite her to like certain pages. She also liked all my ex girlfriend's things. Just complete buffoonery. It didn't bother me too much, but then it did start to weasel its way into my mind. I did something I never thought I'd do and I blocked her and had my mom block her too. Fvcking crazy how chicks will do anything for attention.Noyou said:OMG IM LOLIMG HARD
Ok so, last week I got 3 random friend requests from obvious bogus profiles, 2 unknown calls from "unknown," and her next door neighbor checked out my online dating profile.
Also I blocked her and her friends on facebook, granted I can still see the mini thumbnail on some of my older comments, but I noticed the comments are no longer there.
LOL she blocked me or deactivated her facebook.
Obvious ploy is obvious
The thing is I did, but her comments are set in stone on some of my profile pics that I like.SoSuave666 said:Should not concern you in the least. It's sad that we have come to a point where game playing is no longer done in person, but rather via social media. My most recent ex, after we split, used to like my mother's comments and pictures and invite her to like certain pages. She also liked all my ex girlfriend's things. Just complete buffoonery. It didn't bother me too much, but then it did start to weasel its way into my mind. I did something I never thought I'd do and I blocked her and had my mom block her too. Fvcking crazy how chicks will do anything for attention.
If I were you, I'd just block her. I'm sure you're past the point of caring, but blocking her will ensure you never have to see her again.
Man you dodged a bullet. I went with a chick that was married only for one year . In fact she made moves on me before she was married. She actually moved to be with me for a short time and ditched the hubby. Now she's back with the loser who took her back. Why would you even want to be with a woman like that? You know it will end badly. If there's any satisfaction they will probably be divorced in a few years. Marriages that start like that are doomed to fail.cfdagola said:Day 1 not contact.
My chick left me 10 days ago to go back to her fiance. (she cheated on him with me, ended their engagement and wanted to be with me for a time) and while i did go no contact and she did come back i let her back in to soon. and before i knew it was reaching out to her every few days.
Called her on the phone. and she at least gave me some closure. said that she wishes i would have shown this affection for her sooner, but she's working things out with her fiance. i asked her if she was going to put he ring back on. conversation got tense. she didn't want to answer. probably because she didn't know for sure.
she wanted to stay friends. told her why that's not possible. hung up the phone she sent me more text asking why. told her again. Cried almost the entire night. Deactivated Facebook, deleted my Instagram and deactivated my Pinterest account. I don't want to be tempted anymore to look at her life through the veiled glass of social media. and now here I am.
I watched some day game videos and honestly for some reason that got me energized. Because I feel that's all i need to do is just let this ish go and get back out there. I haven't thought about her all day. I'll update on day 15.
you know she told me, and I also saw it when we were just "talking"mikey2012 said:Man you dodged a bullet. I went with a chick that was married only for one year . In fact she made moves on me before she was married. She actually moved to be with me for a short time and ditched the hubby. Now she's back with the loser who took her back. Why would you even want to be with a woman like that? You know it will end badly. If there's any satisfaction they will probably be divorced in a few years. Marriages that start like that are doomed to fail.
Forget that low class ho. Karma is a biatch. She won't live a happy life. Do you really want to be in the position of the fiancé ? Imagine getting married and your wife cheats on you. Do you really need think you are going to be happy?Believe me it wI'll end badly.cfdagola said:you know she told me, and I also saw it when we were just "talking"
but when she was "planning" the wedding she was sorta a stick in the mud about it. there was no excitement or passion that i saw in my friends new wives.
they were all like OMG lets go here lets look at this, lets do that! they were so excited and happy this chick. she openly said so what i have a ring on. nothing has changed in my mind.
she called it boyfriend 2.0 and for the first 4 months that they were engaged she didn't even call him fiance. there was no passion in her engagement. other than showing off her "pretty ring"
kinda reminds me of my friend katie she got married was with the guy for 8 years. they got married and i believe they were married for 2 years. anyway soon as she got a promotion to leave the state she was GONE in literally 2 weeks. and boom she started dating someone else in her new location.
needless to say the divorce papers are in process. this guy my chick went back to He's posted some pics of her publicly on facebook. she doesn't even look at the camera basically he takes pictures of the back of her head. but she says they're working on things and she is trying to get out of the job she's in right now considering she works with him, his parents and all his parents friends. Maybe she wants to get out because she doesn't want to be working at some crap job with her future husband. I did apologize for getting between them and she said don't because i'm not sorry.
You're right. I'm starting to thing back to when we were talking. she kept dictating what i need to do.Mauser96 said:I am sorry to hear this man, but there are some lessons here I would like to point out, for other's benefits, in bold.
You will be better off without her, watch and see.
Yeah... it is,PairPlusRoyalFlush said:maybe try no contact this time. I know this is the girl that cheated on you like a million times
thing is, is she knows she's got you by the balls.European-DJ said:Yeah... it is,
But it seems like i simple cannot let this one go, i have been seeing loads of other girls, quite a few, only one caught my attention for real, but it just didn't stick, i kept gravitating towards this girl that does me no good...
It is so weird.
Right now she is no doubt dominating your thoughts, but since she doesn't know that (as you aren't contacting her), you hold the power.cfdagola said:thing is, is she knows she's got you by the balls.
you will come back no matter what she does. hands down. why should she change her ways? at this point its become a formality.
You need to break the chain's that bind you and show this girl that she can't treat you this way anymore. screw that mess.
I to am having some issues maintaining total no contact. although no ACTUAL contact has been made my ex has been relentless with her social media barrage on me. liking pictures, making jealous comments against any female that post on my instagram. sprinkling little tidbits to the right people letting me know she misses me. posting random love and i miss you quotes all over her pinterest.
its been 8 days so far. but it feels like a month. I want to talk to her so bad and the thing is. i know she's waiting for it to happen. but screw that this chick picked her lame ex over me. that's all i need to keep reminding myself of.