The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

[Thorninmyside]

Meet her mom to bang her mom. Anything else is gonna **** you up.

 

[HW1984]

Day 10.... 19 overall

Doing all the things I need to do but really want to reach out to her. Not going to because there is no way she is getting the upper hand. I know she lost and she knows it too. Plus there is no way to call and then say I can't talk long got to go. She will smell that BS right away. Still miss her but F* it. Here comes the weekend. Moving on....



Yonggg - If you do end up speaking with her mom if she brings up anything about your ex or the relationship politely tell her that you are not willing to talk about it and are moving on. The best bet is to just tell her this through text or over the phone. Short and brief. If she asks how you are just tell her you are doing well. Same rules as if you bumped in to your ex. It is 100% whatever you say will get back to your ex. So tread carefully and be cool.

 

[Cheeks]

Day 8, trying to detach but have intense dreams every night and wake up with daggers in my chest.

 

[beatjunkie]

fck back to Day 1...unblock and blocked her again on g-chat. grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

 

[beatjunkie]

ok question bros;

which is more effective at getting a response (to have her contact u first)?

1) saying u are intitiating no contact
2) going ghost with no headsup

 

[HW1984]

Just go ghost. No sense in going out of your way to tell her. You are not together anymore so you don't owe her any explanation.

 

[yonggg]

ok question bros;

which is more effective at getting a response (to have her contact u first)?

1) saying u are intitiating no contact
2) going ghost with no headsup

haha, those questions are exactly same with mine when i first post in this forum, u can read it just few pages previously.

i immediately did nc after reakup, and on day 5 started to wonder if i should have tell her first that i initiated nc.

most here advised to keep goin ghost since i already day 5 more.
try open my post history, u will find a lot of answers since my quesions were exactly same with u,

 

[yonggg]

Day 10.... 19 overall

Doing all the things I need to do but really want to reach out to her. Not going to because there is no way she is getting the upper hand. I know she lost and she knows it too. Plus there is no way to call and then say I can't talk long got to go. She will smell that BS right away. Still miss her but F* it. Here comes the weekend. Moving on....



Yonggg - If you do end up speaking with her mom if she brings up anything about your ex or the relationship politely tell her that you are not willing to talk about it and are moving on. The best bet is to just tell her this through text or over the phone. Short and brief. If she asks how you are just tell her you are doing well. Same rules as if you bumped in to your ex. It is 100% whatever you say will get back to your ex. So tread carefully and be cool.

keep strong bro,
yea thanks, one of my friend also advised me to tell her if she want to talk about my ex, i cant meet her since i need time and space, and movin on,
but i already accepted the offer hw, what should i do?
should i text her again tomoorrow, asking ehat are we gonna discuss, if its about my ex, then i should cancel the appointment.

 

[Cheeks]

Don't have sh1t to do this weekend except miss my ex while watching HD porn. Hope I can remain strong.

 

[ljorozco]

haha, those questions are exactly same with mine when i first post in this forum, u can read it just few pages previously.

i immediately did nc after reakup, and on day 5 started to wonder if i should have tell her first that i initiated nc.

most here advised to keep goin ghost since i already day 5 more.
try open my post history, u will find a lot of answers since my quesions were exactly same with u,

Brother - I wouldn't meet with her. Remember this is a team sport. Her mom, albeit nice, caring and loving is still on her team. The other poster is correct and ANYTHING you say will get back to her. The fact that you meet and talk with her is getting back to her. That feeds her ego and feelings. The idea behind going NC and going ghost is to keep them in the dark about your every move! To keep her guessing and missing you. To pay her back for what she's done to you. My advice - don't meet with her mom. It's big boy rules here...so do what you want....but my advice stands.

And NEVER project your moves! Why would you tell them you're going ghost? Let their minds mess with them. Then you'll get texts and calls wondering if you're ok and not in a car accident. It's a mind game bro.

 

[ljorozco]

Day 8, trying to detach but have intense dreams every night and wake up with daggers in my chest.

Take sominex or a sleep pill. That helps with dreams. Stay really busy!! Get busy running...working out but anything to go to bed exhausted. Trust me it helps.

 

[beatjunkie]

Just go ghost. No sense in going out of your way to tell her. You are not together anymore so you don't owe her any explanation.

u speak the truth bro. thanks. will keep at this and this forum defo helping

haha, those questions are exactly same with mine when i first post in this forum, u can read it just few pages previously.

i immediately did nc after reakup, and on day 5 started to wonder if i should have tell her first that i initiated nc.

most here advised to keep goin ghost since i already day 5 more.
try open my post history, u will find a lot of answers since my quesions were exactly same with u,

haha yea i went back and saw...uncanny resemblance, we going thru the same **** bro. let's stick out and hold the front for as long as we breattheee :rockon: :rockon:

 

[beatjunkie]

Don't have sh1t to do this weekend except miss my ex while watching HD porn. Hope I can remain strong.

dont worry about the weekend. think of it as the end of a horrible week and go out and find some *****. preferably one that like watching porn while getting pounded :rockon: :rockon: :rockon:

 

[beatjunkie]

some inspiration to keep going on NC

just wanted to share 2 quotes with u all that keep me going


A) "One week they love you. Next week they hate you. Both weeks I got paid."



B) "You're hustling backwards if you're chasing a b!tch. Stupid, chase the paper, they come with that sh!t"


:rockon:

 

[bigdrov1x]

Just got a missed call from my FB from Chicago that I posted about a while back. I did not answer. I was wondering if maybe I should open and see what is up because I know she has to be in STL in a few weeks. I am completely indifferent about her now, the bish completely killed all of the love that I had for her. I just want the panocha. If I could arrange a last bang, and then go completely ghost? I know that I have the hamster spinning on overdrive right now.hahahha. makes me feel good....schadenfreude!!!!! the bish never had someone like me took me for granted, and now thinks she can run me? no way bish.....hahhah..I feel so validated right now...I guess this is how the chicks on Facecrack feel when their orbiters tell them how beautiful they are etc.....Nyways I would smash it again, but I will never feel the same for this ho again...What do you guys think???? Advice????

 

[beatjunkie]

woke up in the morn and what the first thing i wanna do? contact her

FCK THAT

so i logged in here instead. going for a drive and my morning cig.

#staystrongBeatJunkie

 

[beatjunkie]

Just got a missed call from my FB from Chicago that I posted about a while back. I did not answer. I was wondering if maybe I should open and see what is up because I know she has to be in STL in a few weeks. Nyways I would smash it again, but I will never feel the same for this ho again...What do you guys think???? Advice????

You will be sorry if you do bro. look back at all the dudes on here that tried and how miserable they were after. just hold out for the entire 60 days man and then post here for advice. i know its hard. sh!tt im suffering myself. but you can do this and so can i!

 

[beatjunkie]

Day 2 (technically day 6 of NC but day 2 since i accepted this challenge here)

Having second thoughts...

don't wanna lose her for good....just want her to know what she's missing.

can't live with regrets

feels depressed (i have a history of clinical depression)

advise please

 

[beatjunkie]

i fcking hate u for what u've done to me. u knew i was like this and forced me to open up when i didn't want to. u said u loved me and i asked if u really did...me with all my defects. you said yes..now u left me for someone else because he's normal and i am not.

i fcking hate u for what u've done to me






just venting

 

[yonggg]

i fcking hate u for what u've done to me. u knew i was like this and forced me to open up when i didn't want to. u said u loved me and i asked if u really did...me with all my defects. you said yes..now u left me for someone else because he's normal and i am not.

i fcking hate u for what u've done to me






just venting

i know what u feel bro.
we all here do.

i also hate this ex very much, i never feel hurted and betrayed this worse, even from stranger, remembering how ungrateful she was, how she used me, how she forgot all the sacrifices i did to her. i frequently tempted to say to her that i cant accept, tell her how much i hate her.

but read many advices that we should not express this feeling, ever.

the opposite of love is not hate, its indefference,

she breaks ur heart, ur love is gone, she is nothing more than acquitance for u, u cant trust her as good friend, u do not want to be her close friend, u should go total indifferent to her, coz u dont care about her,
thats her loss.

its hard, but it much btter than expressin ur feeling to her.
keep strong.