"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
The New Challenge: One Date Per Week.
- Thread starter amoka
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I had a coffee date last night. It went pretty well although I'm not 100% of how much romantic interest she has in me.
Will have a longer date next time to suss it out.
I have another date with a different chick on Saturday
One thing I've learned is that dating multiple women is waaaaaaaay cool. If one chick is frustrating me I can just move on to my other options. I will keep it to 3 chicks maximum for now though.
Also, short coffee dates are cool. I used to avoid them but it's a great opportunity to get to know someone a little better and is a much smoother jump from meeting someone to going on a bigger/longer date
we had fun and she's really cool. kino was low as I don't think she's comfortable with it just yet. I'm pretty sure she's keen for me though. I just need another date or two to make things romantic / sexual.
any updates amoka my dude?
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
amoka
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