"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"Life cannot reach total perfection until it has seen total imperfection."
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"High risk can yield only high loss or high reward."
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"Ignorance is a blessing."
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"If you don't know the meaning of life why are you trying to win. Isn't that the same as not knowing what you're fighting for?"
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Added some stuff, balblalblablalabl, enjoy!

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“Low there do I see my Father. Low there do I see my Mother and my Sisters and my Brothers. Low there do I see the line of my people back to the beginning. Low they do call to me, they bid me take my place among them, in the halls of Valhalla... where the brave may live, forever!”
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"Life cannot reach total perfection until it has seen total imperfection." -Yours Truly

"High risk can yield only high loss or high reward." -Yours Truly

"Ignorance is a blessing." -Yours Truly

"If you don't know the meaning of life why are you trying to win? Isn't that the same as not knowing what you're fighting for?" -Yours Truly
 

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"Life cannot reach total perfection until it has seen total imperfection."

"High risk can yield only high loss or high reward."

"Ignorance is a blessing."

"If you don't know the meaning of life why are you trying to win? Isn't that the same as not knowing what you're fighting for?"

"Life and death are the same thing"

-Yours Truly
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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219... check out the first installment to Reloaded: The Series!
 

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this belongs here:
http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum2/HTML/003841.html

bump

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"Life cannot reach total perfection until it has seen total imperfection."

"High risk can yield only high loss or high reward."

"Ignorance is a blessing."

"If you don't know the meaning of life why are you trying to win? Isn't that the same as not knowing what you're fighting for?"

"Life and death are the same thing"

-Yours Truly
 

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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no no no no no you guys let it drop to the 5th thread!!!!

how could you....


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"Life cannot reach total perfection until it has seen total imperfection."

"High risk can yield only high loss or high reward."

"Ignorance is a blessing."

"If you don't know the meaning of life why are you trying to win? Isn't that the same as not knowing what you're fighting for?"

"Life and death are the same thing"

-Yours Truly
 

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up up and away!!!!!

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"Life cannot reach total perfection until it has seen total imperfection."

"High risk can yield only high loss or high reward."

"Ignorance is a blessing."

"If you don't know the meaning of life why are you trying to win? Isn't that the same as not knowing what you're fighting for?"

"Life and death are the same thing"

-Yours Truly
 

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you sure love bumpin it dont you? lol

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nah........


BUMP!


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"Life cannot reach total perfection until it has seen total imperfection."

"High risk can yield only high loss or high reward."

"Ignorance is a blessing."

"If you don't know the meaning of life why are you trying to win? Isn't that the same as not knowing what you're fighting for?"

"Life and death are the same thing"

-Yours Truly
 

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no no no no no

lets keep it up.

lorenzo i'm still waiting for a certain "something"..


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"Life cannot reach total perfection until it has seen total imperfection."

"High risk can yield only high loss or high reward."

"Ignorance is a blessing."

"If you don't know the meaning of life why are you trying to win? Isn't that the same as not knowing what you're fighting for?"

"Life and death are the same thing"

-Yours Truly
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

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