"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
The New and Of Course Improved... High School Bible
- Thread starter Lorenzo
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Lorenzo
Master Don Juan
ElMusicaMan - My Story (may be insightful for some)
Are we learning yet?
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Master Don Juan
Anthony (Lorenzo)
AIM: EnzoOOI
E-mail: [email protected]
The DJ Bible ~or~ The High School Don Juan Bible
“I can imagine, that right now you are feeling a bit like Alice, tumbling down the rabbit hole?…… Let me tell you why you’re here. You’re here because you know something. What you know you can’t explain. But you feel it. You’ve felt it your entire life, that there is something wrong with the world. You don’t know what it is. But its there, like a splinter in your mind, driving you mad. It is this feeling that has brought you to me.…… Unfortunately no one can be, told what the Matrix is. You have to see it for yourself.…… You take the red pill, you stay in wonderland, and I show you how deep the rabbit hole goes” - Laurence Fishburne
Sociopath31
Master Don Juan
Like a 12-step program to getting laid.
Lorenzo
Master Don Juan
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Master Don Juan
Anthony (Lorenzo)
AIM: EnzoOOI
E-mail: [email protected]
The DJ Bible ~or~ The High School Don Juan Bible
“I imagine, that right now you are feeling a bit like Alice, tumbling down the rabbit hole?…… Let me tell you why you’re here. You’re here because you know something. What you know you can’t explain. But you feel it. You’ve felt it your entire life, that there is something wrong with the world. You don’t know what it is. But its there, like a splinter in your mind, driving you mad. It is this feeling that has brought you to me.…… Unfortunately no one can be, told what the Matrix is. You have to see it for yourself.…… after this, there is no turning back, you stay in wonderland, and I show you how deep the rabbit hole goes” - Laurence Fishburne
Sociopath31
Master Don Juan
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
HAHAHAHAAAHAHAAHAHAAHAAHAAAAA!!!
Later.
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Bedford
a.k.a Bedford
AIM-Sk8terBNS
Weapon of choice-Lorenzo's baseball bat
DWOFS=Don't Waste Our Fukkin Space
The DJ Bible
The HS Bible
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
BUMP
Sociopath31
Master Don Juan
Serg897
Master Don Juan
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-Sergio
AIM:Thrawn1212
E-Mail:[email protected]
"If at first you dont succeed, try, try, again"
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
SquirrelScammer
Senior Don Juan
Specter
Senior Don Juan
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Dateing is like fighting, Every one is differnt and has there own style and weakness. You must be able to pinpoint theise flaws and exploit them to the fullest to win the fight.
- My theroy
Lorenzo
Master Don Juan
Nine Breaker - The GREATEST Threat To A Don Juan
Or, just look in the HSDJB, chapter #2
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Master Don Juan
Anthony (Lorenzo)
AIM: EnzoOOI
E-mail: [email protected]
The DJ Bible ~or~ The High School Don Juan Bible
“The moment we lose everything we hurt like never before. But the moment after is the moment we begin our lives as we were intended, as men.”
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Bedford
a.k.a Bedford
AIM-Sk8terBNS
Weapon of choice-Lorenzo's baseball bat
DWOFS=Don't Waste Our Fukkin Space
The DJ Bible
The HS Bible
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
syncmaster
Master Don Juan
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Syncmaster signing out.
a.k.a ... Adam
Sociopath31
Master Don Juan
TheSplat
Master Don Juan
ScarFaceOI
Don Juan
CableLight
Master Don Juan
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CableLight
- Hey, I dunno what my name means either
"Always remember those you love. Even in death, no one is ever truely gone as long as they are remembered."
Life is the hardest teacher. For she gives the test first, and the lesson after.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.