My Name is Nobody
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john paul said:Is that a joke or are you seriously asking her that?
Serious. What's the problem?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
john paul said:Is that a joke or are you seriously asking her that?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
My Name is Nobody said:Serious. What's the problem?
john paul said:Nothing.
Just a weird question i thought.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
How about you?iqqi said:You dudes are so lame. FOR REALz.
No wonder you spend more time on sosuave instead of in yourbed.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
NiceNotaCougar said:Let's see... the general consensus is, if given the chance I should just have some fun with him with no further expectations. Could be worth a shot!
The other general consensus is that 40-somethings couldn't possibly look good without make-up and low club lighting. I think you guys aren't paying enough attention when you walk around in the world if you really believe this. But.... your perception is your reality and I'm not here to change it.
We are pretty picky here, all the adult entertainment on the internet doesn't help us either.
And you guys all still believe it's easier to get laid by a 40-something when I'm thinking that maybe a better way of putting it is that it's easier to lay a 40-something without having to make some kind of relationship long term commitment to keep getting it.
I always thought it was harder since the 40-somethings always want a commitment and won't sleep unless you offer commitment / money / status. It appears to be the 20 somethings that don't know any better.
My Name is Nobody: your question is crude/ rude and tasteless, which maybe makes it weird and inappropriate to the discussion. Having said that I will indulge you anyway. When you say 2 - 3 hours are you asking if he could keep it up that long without going soft?
Let's see, the last time I had sex was friday night. The last time it lasted for hours was a week ago, the last time it lasted all day and night was about a m onth ago. I'm neither desperate to get laid or for dates for that matter. I prefer a more exclusive sex partner because the sex gets better and isn't fraught with all the awkward crapt in the beginning when you actually get to do it over and over and over and get a feel for what really turns each other on. I especially enjoy the consistency of the same partner for those quickies that should occur when you least expect them!
As you complain of the attention youre getting while at work in clubs. Are you wearing these jeans (and other clothes) that show off your "great ass", to these clubs?NotaCougar said:>>snip<<
There isn't a flabby spot on my body thank god, I do like to wear jeans that show my great ass thank you.
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NotaCougar said:Let's see, the last time I had sex was friday night. The last time it lasted for hours was a week ago, the last time it lasted all day and night was about a m onth ago. I'm neither desperate to get laid or for dates for that matter. I prefer a more exclusive sex partner because the sex gets better and isn't fraught with all the awkward crapt in the beginning when you actually get to do it over and over and over and get a feel for what really turns each other on. I especially enjoy the consistency of the same partner for those quickies that should occur when you least expect them!
NotaCougar said:I'm playing the field, having fun, but always thinking of him.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
NotaCougar said:Wow, 50? That's bold. Have you seen pictures? Good luck and let us know how it rolls out! Age is just a number Luke... I'm just sweating it more than I should be.
Funny huh? I wouldn't give it much thought. It's like like trying to know what parrots with hats simulate to play basketball think about when they do so. You can't. And, well, I mean this with due respect to the Parrot, it's unfair to compare the two.My Name is Nobody said:I just want to know why she's banging guys but always thinking about the 20 year old she hasn't banged yet.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.