“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The New Age Factor- Cougars / Milfs

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Older women are easier targets. For one thing older women will go for an AFC easier then a young girl will. They love the attention, it "restores" there youth in a way, and they have usually gotten sick of the bad boy type. You also may look good for your age, but the low lighting in clubs probably hides imperfections, or heavier make-up use, making you look better then you are.
Not to mention older women tend to have a higher sex drive while males of there age decrease, making them older horny women. Here is a chart http://geniusbeauty.com/men-and-women/why-couples-conflict-about-sex/
Yes guys it's a crappy womens site but I've seen this chart a few times, this is just the first one I came across on a google search.

If you find this post informative hit the scale and add to my rep, if you don't like it ignore this :)
 
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john paul said:
Nothing.
Just a weird question i thought.

Alright.. I'll rephrase the question.

Cougar, when was the last time you were banged for 2 hours?
 

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Mystic, down from the clouds to shed some light here.

The only business you have with a 20 year old is teaching him how to fvck. Exclusive, LTR, :rolleyes: I dont think so. You need to fvck the sh!t out of this kid and teach him right, so in the future he wont be a total disgrace in bed. He's just a kid, he's not LTR material. Come on. Do you really expect him to be a man in the relationship, given his AFC behavior to date. You are just going to be his new mommy.

When I was 20 I nailed a couple 40 year olds for skills building, but there was never a consideration for an LTR.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Let's see... the general consensus is, if given the chance I should just have some fun with him with no further expectations. Could be worth a shot!

The other general consensus is that 40-somethings couldn't possibly look good without make-up and low club lighting. I think you guys aren't paying enough attention when you walk around in the world if you really believe this. But.... your perception is your reality and I'm not here to change it.

And you guys all still believe it's easier to get laid by a 40-something when I'm thinking that maybe a better way of putting it is that it's easier to lay a 40-something without having to make some kind of relationship long term commitment to keep getting it.

SilverSilver....great link. I tipped your scale;-)

My Name is Nobody: your question is crude/ rude and tasteless, which maybe makes it weird and inappropriate to the discussion. Having said that I will indulge you anyway. When you say 2 - 3 hours are you asking if he could keep it up that long without going soft?

Let's see, the last time I had sex was friday night. The last time it lasted for hours was a week ago, the last time it lasted all day and night was about a m onth ago. I'm neither desperate to get laid or for dates for that matter. I prefer a more exclusive sex partner because the sex gets better and isn't fraught with all the awkward crapt in the beginning when you actually get to do it over and over and over and get a feel for what really turns each other on. I especially enjoy the consistency of the same partner for those quickies that should occur when you least expect them!
 

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ps. Mystic, thanks for coming down from the clouds.

I have no STD's/STI's
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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NotaCougar said:
Let's see... the general consensus is, if given the chance I should just have some fun with him with no further expectations. Could be worth a shot!

The other general consensus is that 40-somethings couldn't possibly look good without make-up and low club lighting. I think you guys aren't paying enough attention when you walk around in the world if you really believe this. But.... your perception is your reality and I'm not here to change it.

We are pretty picky here, all the adult entertainment on the internet doesn't help us either.

And you guys all still believe it's easier to get laid by a 40-something when I'm thinking that maybe a better way of putting it is that it's easier to lay a 40-something without having to make some kind of relationship long term commitment to keep getting it.

I always thought it was harder since the 40-somethings always want a commitment and won't sleep unless you offer commitment / money / status. It appears to be the 20 somethings that don't know any better.



My Name is Nobody: your question is crude/ rude and tasteless, which maybe makes it weird and inappropriate to the discussion. Having said that I will indulge you anyway. When you say 2 - 3 hours are you asking if he could keep it up that long without going soft?

Let's see, the last time I had sex was friday night. The last time it lasted for hours was a week ago, the last time it lasted all day and night was about a m onth ago. I'm neither desperate to get laid or for dates for that matter. I prefer a more exclusive sex partner because the sex gets better and isn't fraught with all the awkward crapt in the beginning when you actually get to do it over and over and over and get a feel for what really turns each other on. I especially enjoy the consistency of the same partner for those quickies that should occur when you least expect them!
Nice
 

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NotaCougar said:
>>snip<<

There isn't a flabby spot on my body thank god, I do like to wear jeans that show my great ass thank you.

>>snip<<
As you complain of the attention youre getting while at work in clubs. Are you wearing these jeans (and other clothes) that show off your "great ass", to these clubs?
 
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Let's see, the last time I had sex was friday night. The last time it lasted for hours was a week ago, the last time it lasted all day and night was about a m onth ago. I'm neither desperate to get laid or for dates for that matter. I prefer a more exclusive sex partner because the sex gets better and isn't fraught with all the awkward crapt in the beginning when you actually get to do it over and over and over and get a feel for what really turns each other on. I especially enjoy the consistency of the same partner for those quickies that should occur when you least expect them!

You're having all that sex but you only think about the 20 year old you haven't had sex with yet? That's weird.


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I'm playing the field, having fun, but always thinking of him.
 
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I'm going to be dating a 50 year old woman I meet from the internet. We have allot in common and she claims she looks yonger than she looks by 20 years. She also seems to be a kid at heart so we may get along. My parents don't know about this or they will think I have lost my mind. Heck, maybe I already have. But I guess I'm tired of all these yonger immature women who don't know what they are doing and it's time to give older women a chance.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Wow, 50? That's bold. Have you seen pictures? Good luck and let us know how it rolls out! Age is just a number Luke... I'm just sweating it more than I should be.
 
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Wow, 50? That's bold. Have you seen pictures? Good luck and let us know how it rolls out! Age is just a number Luke... I'm just sweating it more than I should be.

I think Luke is only doing it because he is a virgin.
 

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I was about to say how Luke's posts always make me laugh, not Dr. Beard type or pigeon guy or the jewish kid, because one could laugh freely knowing that it was a troll. I can't laugh that much because I haven't figured out if Luke's for real.

The freaky thing is "Not-a-cougar" to the rescue of all old women post! Should we name you "Notafeminist" too? How about "IpretendIdontWantToGetMarriedWithSomeExcuseLike:IHaventMetTheRightGuyYet!"
 
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I just want to know why she's banging guys but always thinking about the 20 year old she hasn't banged yet.
 

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My Name is Nobody said:
I just want to know why she's banging guys but always thinking about the 20 year old she hasn't banged yet.
Funny huh? I wouldn't give it much thought. It's like like trying to know what parrots with hats simulate to play basketball think about when they do so. You can't. And, well, I mean this with due respect to the Parrot, it's unfair to compare the two.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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