"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The narcissist "video game"

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You know that "hot girl" that you pursue that strings you along, or that gf or wife who is Withholding sex or had a bunch of mind games you endure to get it? . There is a currency for that "video game":
1. Self respect
2. Confidence
3. Masculinity
4. Sexual energy
5. Drive
6. Ambition
7. Self esteem

Those are your coins for that game, and it will happily deplete each of those qualities.

Respect yourself. Know you self worth. Only entertain those who value you.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You know that "hot girl" that you pursue that strings you along, or that gf or wife who is Withholding sex or had a bunch of mind games you endure to get it? . There is a currency for that "video game":
1. Self respect
2. Confidence
3. Masculinity
4. Sexual energy
5. Drive
6. Ambition
7. Self esteem

Those are your coins for that game, and it will happily deplete each of those qualities.

Respect yourself. Know you self worth. Only entertain those who value you.
:up:
creative analogy!
 

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You know that "hot girl" that you pursue that strings you along, or that gf or wife who is Withholding sex or had a bunch of mind games you endure to get it? . There is a currency for that "video game":
1. Self respect
2. Confidence
3. Masculinity
4. Sexual energy
5. Drive
6. Ambition
7. Self esteem

Those are your coins for that game, and it will happily deplete each of those qualities.

Respect yourself. Know you self worth. Only entertain those who value you.
Truth!
 

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In other words get your balls out of that mason jar on top of the fridge, reattach, and be a MAN.

Voila!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Forget it all. Stick with the IDGAF attitude and put yourself first. Trust when I say, it works. Never put her first; unless life threatening/medical emergencies. You first then her, then the offsprings.
Fvck them first ask questions later. I also agree it only works if she is MORE into YOU by at least little bit. Women INTO you will be trying to find ways to help and add to you. The other way is not as good and it gets worse with time ( you get taken for granted and used ).
 

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It's actually real. They "feed" on all of those qualities, and it empowers them when they are depleting a quaility or reducing it.
to what end though? to feel powerful and then what? like, what's the end game?
Just so that they'll know they imprinted on you? Had an effect on you? Isn't this pathetic to choose a negative means to imprint on someone?


Reeks of loneliness and insanity.

Why doesn't the narcissist want to improve your life and let the improvements be the ego boost they brag on?
 

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to what end though? to feel powerful and then what? like, what's the end game?
Just so that they'll know they imprinted on you? Had an effect on you? Isn't this pathetic to choose a negative means to imprint on someone?


Reeks of loneliness and insanity.

Why doesn't the narcissist want to improve your life and let the improvements be the ego boost they brag on?
They work in the reverse method. They feel they feed you trash either because they are over you, or that they want to be over you. If you keep eating trash they will end up over you. So they work by tearing people down. This is in the realm of what we call "demons". The ones who gain by the loss and destruction of others. In the other method they are "helping" you. They don't want to help you even on accident. They feel people "help" the DOM, and the DOM or boss doesn't have to do anything in return, it's owed.
 
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