"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The narcissist "video game"

mrgoodstuff

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You know that "hot girl" that you pursue that strings you along, or that gf or wife who is Withholding sex or had a bunch of mind games you endure to get it? . There is a currency for that "video game":
1. Self respect
2. Confidence
3. Masculinity
4. Sexual energy
5. Drive
6. Ambition
7. Self esteem

Those are your coins for that game, and it will happily deplete each of those qualities.

Respect yourself. Know you self worth. Only entertain those who value you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You know that "hot girl" that you pursue that strings you along, or that gf or wife who is Withholding sex or had a bunch of mind games you endure to get it? . There is a currency for that "video game":
1. Self respect
2. Confidence
3. Masculinity
4. Sexual energy
5. Drive
6. Ambition
7. Self esteem

Those are your coins for that game, and it will happily deplete each of those qualities.

Respect yourself. Know you self worth. Only entertain those who value you.
:up:
creative analogy!
 

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You know that "hot girl" that you pursue that strings you along, or that gf or wife who is Withholding sex or had a bunch of mind games you endure to get it? . There is a currency for that "video game":
1. Self respect
2. Confidence
3. Masculinity
4. Sexual energy
5. Drive
6. Ambition
7. Self esteem

Those are your coins for that game, and it will happily deplete each of those qualities.

Respect yourself. Know you self worth. Only entertain those who value you.
Truth!
 

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In other words get your balls out of that mason jar on top of the fridge, reattach, and be a MAN.

Voila!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Forget it all. Stick with the IDGAF attitude and put yourself first. Trust when I say, it works. Never put her first; unless life threatening/medical emergencies. You first then her, then the offsprings.
Fvck them first ask questions later. I also agree it only works if she is MORE into YOU by at least little bit. Women INTO you will be trying to find ways to help and add to you. The other way is not as good and it gets worse with time ( you get taken for granted and used ).
 

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It's actually real. They "feed" on all of those qualities, and it empowers them when they are depleting a quaility or reducing it.
to what end though? to feel powerful and then what? like, what's the end game?
Just so that they'll know they imprinted on you? Had an effect on you? Isn't this pathetic to choose a negative means to imprint on someone?


Reeks of loneliness and insanity.

Why doesn't the narcissist want to improve your life and let the improvements be the ego boost they brag on?
 

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to what end though? to feel powerful and then what? like, what's the end game?
Just so that they'll know they imprinted on you? Had an effect on you? Isn't this pathetic to choose a negative means to imprint on someone?


Reeks of loneliness and insanity.

Why doesn't the narcissist want to improve your life and let the improvements be the ego boost they brag on?
They work in the reverse method. They feel they feed you trash either because they are over you, or that they want to be over you. If you keep eating trash they will end up over you. So they work by tearing people down. This is in the realm of what we call "demons". The ones who gain by the loss and destruction of others. In the other method they are "helping" you. They don't want to help you even on accident. They feel people "help" the DOM, and the DOM or boss doesn't have to do anything in return, it's owed.
 
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