"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The narcissist "video game"

mrgoodstuff

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You know that "hot girl" that you pursue that strings you along, or that gf or wife who is Withholding sex or had a bunch of mind games you endure to get it? . There is a currency for that "video game":
1. Self respect
2. Confidence
3. Masculinity
4. Sexual energy
5. Drive
6. Ambition
7. Self esteem

Those are your coins for that game, and it will happily deplete each of those qualities.

Respect yourself. Know you self worth. Only entertain those who value you.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You know that "hot girl" that you pursue that strings you along, or that gf or wife who is Withholding sex or had a bunch of mind games you endure to get it? . There is a currency for that "video game":
1. Self respect
2. Confidence
3. Masculinity
4. Sexual energy
5. Drive
6. Ambition
7. Self esteem

Those are your coins for that game, and it will happily deplete each of those qualities.

Respect yourself. Know you self worth. Only entertain those who value you.
:up:
creative analogy!
 

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You know that "hot girl" that you pursue that strings you along, or that gf or wife who is Withholding sex or had a bunch of mind games you endure to get it? . There is a currency for that "video game":
1. Self respect
2. Confidence
3. Masculinity
4. Sexual energy
5. Drive
6. Ambition
7. Self esteem

Those are your coins for that game, and it will happily deplete each of those qualities.

Respect yourself. Know you self worth. Only entertain those who value you.
Truth!
 

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In other words get your balls out of that mason jar on top of the fridge, reattach, and be a MAN.

Voila!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Forget it all. Stick with the IDGAF attitude and put yourself first. Trust when I say, it works. Never put her first; unless life threatening/medical emergencies. You first then her, then the offsprings.
Fvck them first ask questions later. I also agree it only works if she is MORE into YOU by at least little bit. Women INTO you will be trying to find ways to help and add to you. The other way is not as good and it gets worse with time ( you get taken for granted and used ).
 

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It's actually real. They "feed" on all of those qualities, and it empowers them when they are depleting a quaility or reducing it.
to what end though? to feel powerful and then what? like, what's the end game?
Just so that they'll know they imprinted on you? Had an effect on you? Isn't this pathetic to choose a negative means to imprint on someone?


Reeks of loneliness and insanity.

Why doesn't the narcissist want to improve your life and let the improvements be the ego boost they brag on?
 

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to what end though? to feel powerful and then what? like, what's the end game?
Just so that they'll know they imprinted on you? Had an effect on you? Isn't this pathetic to choose a negative means to imprint on someone?


Reeks of loneliness and insanity.

Why doesn't the narcissist want to improve your life and let the improvements be the ego boost they brag on?
They work in the reverse method. They feel they feed you trash either because they are over you, or that they want to be over you. If you keep eating trash they will end up over you. So they work by tearing people down. This is in the realm of what we call "demons". The ones who gain by the loss and destruction of others. In the other method they are "helping" you. They don't want to help you even on accident. They feel people "help" the DOM, and the DOM or boss doesn't have to do anything in return, it's owed.
 
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