"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Myth of the fairer sex....

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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SexyMofo said:
When you are walking down a dimly lit street, you are on the lookout for men. Why? You are much more like to get mugged by a man than a woman. Is it because women are less violent than men? Is it because women have an innate goodness inside them? Is it because women nurture and are the goddess mothers?

http://theasianlover.com/2010/07/28/women-are-just-as-violent-as-men/
It's more because I could beat the ever-living sh!t out of just about any woman who tried to mug me, so they just don't seem threatening.

Men are generally larger in physical size...and tend to learn to use that to their advantage socially, including criminally.
 

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Women are more *violent* than men. The fallacy is believing that all violence is physical in nature.

Far from it. Women specialize in psychological and emotional *violence* which often goes undetected.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Women may be more violent, maybe not. They may be more cunning and manipulative, maybe not.

Statistics can sometimes present a skewed viewpoint. Their may be more domestic violence from women, but I think more men are serial killers, and I'm sure anybody with sufficient time can google up a sufficient amount of data to support either side of the argument.

If you know your boundaries, and respond appropriately when people cross them, everything should wash out.

i think men get tricked into believing that women are not capable of violence or evil simply because their first experience with a woman is generally of a compassionate and nurturing mother (to an extent, at least). All others are subconsciously compared to her.

Once you free yourself from this bias, it will seem much easier to judge them on an individual bases, as you won't have any expectations.

The bias of the gentle female is widespread, even in cultural anthroplogy. A good treatment of the subject is in "The Lucifer Principle," although I can't remember what chapter.
 

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It's more because I could beat the ever-living sh!t out of just about any woman who tried to mug me, so they just don't seem threatening. Aint this the truth and ISNT IT GREAT TO BE A MAN!! Those women that think they can actually beat up a man have sum serious issues too. Usually they been abused as a child or in an abusive realionship alot of times both wtf?Best to not get involved with these types of women.Good posts fellas :up:
 

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Women don't need a dark alley to "mug" you, they can just do it over a prolonged period of time after you sign the marriage certificate.
 

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Women are more *violent* than men. The fallacy is believing that all violence is physical in nature.

Far from it. Women specialize in psychological and emotional *violence* which often goes undetected.
This.
 
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