"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Myth of the fairer sex....

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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SexyMofo said:
When you are walking down a dimly lit street, you are on the lookout for men. Why? You are much more like to get mugged by a man than a woman. Is it because women are less violent than men? Is it because women have an innate goodness inside them? Is it because women nurture and are the goddess mothers?

http://theasianlover.com/2010/07/28/women-are-just-as-violent-as-men/
It's more because I could beat the ever-living sh!t out of just about any woman who tried to mug me, so they just don't seem threatening.

Men are generally larger in physical size...and tend to learn to use that to their advantage socially, including criminally.
 

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Women are more *violent* than men. The fallacy is believing that all violence is physical in nature.

Far from it. Women specialize in psychological and emotional *violence* which often goes undetected.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Women may be more violent, maybe not. They may be more cunning and manipulative, maybe not.

Statistics can sometimes present a skewed viewpoint. Their may be more domestic violence from women, but I think more men are serial killers, and I'm sure anybody with sufficient time can google up a sufficient amount of data to support either side of the argument.

If you know your boundaries, and respond appropriately when people cross them, everything should wash out.

i think men get tricked into believing that women are not capable of violence or evil simply because their first experience with a woman is generally of a compassionate and nurturing mother (to an extent, at least). All others are subconsciously compared to her.

Once you free yourself from this bias, it will seem much easier to judge them on an individual bases, as you won't have any expectations.

The bias of the gentle female is widespread, even in cultural anthroplogy. A good treatment of the subject is in "The Lucifer Principle," although I can't remember what chapter.
 

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It's more because I could beat the ever-living sh!t out of just about any woman who tried to mug me, so they just don't seem threatening. Aint this the truth and ISNT IT GREAT TO BE A MAN!! Those women that think they can actually beat up a man have sum serious issues too. Usually they been abused as a child or in an abusive realionship alot of times both wtf?Best to not get involved with these types of women.Good posts fellas :up:
 

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Women don't need a dark alley to "mug" you, they can just do it over a prolonged period of time after you sign the marriage certificate.
 

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Women are more *violent* than men. The fallacy is believing that all violence is physical in nature.

Far from it. Women specialize in psychological and emotional *violence* which often goes undetected.
This.
 
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