"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The move "Requiem for a Dream" and women's rescue fantasies

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Does anybody else here besides me get a blazing red flag go off in the head when a woman says her all-time favorite movie is Requiem for a Dream? It might be a marvel in cinematography but substantially, it's a nihilistic piece of trash that doesn't tell you what you don't know already about drugs and messing yourself up.
Also, I've observed many women express fantasies of being "rescued" from God-knows-what. One of them lives in a rich neighborhood, plays in an up-and-coming rock band, and has many, many men who would be eager to nail her. What is up with that nonsense?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I dont think you should judge a person based only on a movie they like.
 
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Ya I know exactly what you're trying to get at and YES you canjudge a person by their favorite movie it says a lot about em.

"Requiem for a Dream" I totally agree about it was my Ex's favorite movie.

I watched it and thought it was frankly garbage. It put me in a bad mood and who the hell wants to watched something that puts you in a ****ty mood.

I could deduce that if a women likes this movie she:

is a drama queen and thrives for suffering and drama
likes to baske in negative situations

and could possibly:

feel helpless, feels lost, feels like life is one big suffer session

And to tell you the truth, this was exactly how it played out:

She created a drama situation, I dropped her ass immediately, she became obsessive calling me repetitively (53 times in one day) egging me on to be cruel and make her cry indirectly. Crying all the while.

so Requiem is definitely a red flag I agree
 
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