"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The move "Requiem for a Dream" and women's rescue fantasies

WatchMeWalk

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Does anybody else here besides me get a blazing red flag go off in the head when a woman says her all-time favorite movie is Requiem for a Dream? It might be a marvel in cinematography but substantially, it's a nihilistic piece of trash that doesn't tell you what you don't know already about drugs and messing yourself up.
Also, I've observed many women express fantasies of being "rescued" from God-knows-what. One of them lives in a rich neighborhood, plays in an up-and-coming rock band, and has many, many men who would be eager to nail her. What is up with that nonsense?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Julian

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I dont think you should judge a person based only on a movie they like.
 

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Ya I know exactly what you're trying to get at and YES you canjudge a person by their favorite movie it says a lot about em.

"Requiem for a Dream" I totally agree about it was my Ex's favorite movie.

I watched it and thought it was frankly garbage. It put me in a bad mood and who the hell wants to watched something that puts you in a ****ty mood.

I could deduce that if a women likes this movie she:

is a drama queen and thrives for suffering and drama
likes to baske in negative situations

and could possibly:

feel helpless, feels lost, feels like life is one big suffer session

And to tell you the truth, this was exactly how it played out:

She created a drama situation, I dropped her ass immediately, she became obsessive calling me repetitively (53 times in one day) egging me on to be cruel and make her cry indirectly. Crying all the while.

so Requiem is definitely a red flag I agree
 
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