Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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The most important thing to remember as a dj

captain55

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i remember when I was dating my 8/10...and was friends with another hot chick told me that wanted my **** in order for a relationship to work the woman has to look better than the chick. Was she jealous of my chick and secretly wanted me? Yes but that’s besuses the point.

In order for me to commit to a relationship a girl has to be significantly more attractive than me. Otherwise I don’t bother. Don’t confuse options with smv...a 7/10 female will have more options than an 8/10 male. . Be honest with yourself and ask yourself if the chick is above you in smv....if she’s not you shouldn’t bother and can never call yourself a dj. The whole reason you come here is to get women above you in smv.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ohrein

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There is no "most important thing", as being a DJ is really about living a life you want and that is subjective. Some guys want the hottest women they can bang without limitations, other guys just want one quality woman to settle down with. Point being, if you find a chick that adds value to your life, don't ditch her just because some guys on a forum said you shouldn't settle for less than an 8/10. Hell, that rating is subjective too, to a degree.
 

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I am happy with an equal SMV chick or 1 point below me if im attracted to her but absolutely no more. And has already been pointed out above, SMV is a very subjective value.
 

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The hottest girls are the most retarded. But they are also the most fun.

So as I always say:

Go Big or Go Home biches.
 

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Right. So if your ruling passion in life is chess and you find a geek girl who thinks chess players r boss you have to discard her hb6 arse coz guru says.

Nah you have to be your own man. If she makes you hard and adds to your life keep her round as long as that's true.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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