Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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The most important thing to remember as a dj

captain55

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i remember when I was dating my 8/10...and was friends with another hot chick told me that wanted my **** in order for a relationship to work the woman has to look better than the chick. Was she jealous of my chick and secretly wanted me? Yes but that’s besuses the point.

In order for me to commit to a relationship a girl has to be significantly more attractive than me. Otherwise I don’t bother. Don’t confuse options with smv...a 7/10 female will have more options than an 8/10 male. . Be honest with yourself and ask yourself if the chick is above you in smv....if she’s not you shouldn’t bother and can never call yourself a dj. The whole reason you come here is to get women above you in smv.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ohrein

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There is no "most important thing", as being a DJ is really about living a life you want and that is subjective. Some guys want the hottest women they can bang without limitations, other guys just want one quality woman to settle down with. Point being, if you find a chick that adds value to your life, don't ditch her just because some guys on a forum said you shouldn't settle for less than an 8/10. Hell, that rating is subjective too, to a degree.
 

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I am happy with an equal SMV chick or 1 point below me if im attracted to her but absolutely no more. And has already been pointed out above, SMV is a very subjective value.
 

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The hottest girls are the most retarded. But they are also the most fun.

So as I always say:

Go Big or Go Home biches.
 

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Right. So if your ruling passion in life is chess and you find a geek girl who thinks chess players r boss you have to discard her hb6 arse coz guru says.

Nah you have to be your own man. If she makes you hard and adds to your life keep her round as long as that's true.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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