"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The most important thing to remember as a dj

captain55

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i remember when I was dating my 8/10...and was friends with another hot chick told me that wanted my **** in order for a relationship to work the woman has to look better than the chick. Was she jealous of my chick and secretly wanted me? Yes but that’s besuses the point.

In order for me to commit to a relationship a girl has to be significantly more attractive than me. Otherwise I don’t bother. Don’t confuse options with smv...a 7/10 female will have more options than an 8/10 male. . Be honest with yourself and ask yourself if the chick is above you in smv....if she’s not you shouldn’t bother and can never call yourself a dj. The whole reason you come here is to get women above you in smv.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ohrein

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There is no "most important thing", as being a DJ is really about living a life you want and that is subjective. Some guys want the hottest women they can bang without limitations, other guys just want one quality woman to settle down with. Point being, if you find a chick that adds value to your life, don't ditch her just because some guys on a forum said you shouldn't settle for less than an 8/10. Hell, that rating is subjective too, to a degree.
 

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I am happy with an equal SMV chick or 1 point below me if im attracted to her but absolutely no more. And has already been pointed out above, SMV is a very subjective value.
 

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The hottest girls are the most retarded. But they are also the most fun.

So as I always say:

Go Big or Go Home biches.
 

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Right. So if your ruling passion in life is chess and you find a geek girl who thinks chess players r boss you have to discard her hb6 arse coz guru says.

Nah you have to be your own man. If she makes you hard and adds to your life keep her round as long as that's true.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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