"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The most important thing to remember as a dj

captain55

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i remember when I was dating my 8/10...and was friends with another hot chick told me that wanted my **** in order for a relationship to work the woman has to look better than the chick. Was she jealous of my chick and secretly wanted me? Yes but that’s besuses the point.

In order for me to commit to a relationship a girl has to be significantly more attractive than me. Otherwise I don’t bother. Don’t confuse options with smv...a 7/10 female will have more options than an 8/10 male. . Be honest with yourself and ask yourself if the chick is above you in smv....if she’s not you shouldn’t bother and can never call yourself a dj. The whole reason you come here is to get women above you in smv.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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ohrein

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There is no "most important thing", as being a DJ is really about living a life you want and that is subjective. Some guys want the hottest women they can bang without limitations, other guys just want one quality woman to settle down with. Point being, if you find a chick that adds value to your life, don't ditch her just because some guys on a forum said you shouldn't settle for less than an 8/10. Hell, that rating is subjective too, to a degree.
 

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I am happy with an equal SMV chick or 1 point below me if im attracted to her but absolutely no more. And has already been pointed out above, SMV is a very subjective value.
 

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The hottest girls are the most retarded. But they are also the most fun.

So as I always say:

Go Big or Go Home biches.
 

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Right. So if your ruling passion in life is chess and you find a geek girl who thinks chess players r boss you have to discard her hb6 arse coz guru says.

Nah you have to be your own man. If she makes you hard and adds to your life keep her round as long as that's true.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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