spider_007
Master Don Juan
HELP SAVE THIS DUDE.
http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?p=808515#post808515
http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?p=808515#post808515
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
LMAO !!!!!!--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
I've put myself into a tricky situation that I'm not sure how to handle.
My partner and I have been together for 2 years, engaged for the last 9 months. For the last 6 months we've been trying to have a baby with fertility help as I'm 42. Obviously this puts strain on any relationship and my partner has recently been finding it more and more difficult to have sex on the prescribed days. As a result, our normally healthy and happy sex life has become rather strained and lacking.
A week ago, I found out that he has recently been active on a website dedicated to finding other sexual partners.
I signed onto this website with a pseudonym and have engaged him in a rather explicit ongoing dialogue. Of course, he doesn't know its me and I'm not sure how to continue with this lie and what to do about an eventual meeting, should it happen.
Should I keep quiet, confront him or trap him?? Or leave him for that matter...
Please help! Any advice would be much appreciated
LMAO thank god I'm no longer a AFC.when i see her she smailes but does she like me how do u tell? I'v had a qwash on her since first grade and never found out i see her at least 2times a day at school but now its out and my dad wants me to go to anather school. well does she like me or not
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
All of the "cool" kids from my grade school and high school are all working at Wal-Mart or McDonalds with a kid or two under their belt that they had between the age of 19 and now from a relationship that is now nothing.
My advice is act like they are a guy.
Just be honest, and be yourself.
That sounds as though there is no ******** involved. She is saying what many DJs have said in our own bible.Girls LOVe when guys notice things like that because males are notorious for not noticing the "little things".