teacha
Senior Don Juan
don't be so quick to judge, things are not always what they seem.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Update. He isnt here this AM, but I'm gonna do it. Here is something to think about. You guys all talk about maybe he cheated? Maybe it was her and he's so AFC that he's trying to get his oneitis back. hmmmm?jafyk said:Lol, nice scenario guy needs a place to sleep and cheats on his roof over his head? what is this? Ashton Kutcher in the movie "Spread"? 5String pls get that guy in here already. I dare you, lol.
Chump boy has not been back since. I'm ready to make my move if he does. I see the HB every day out of my office window though. Gotta guy here at work that I suggested he go chat her up (recon her). He's a good guy and single. He won't have a problem with a cold approach. If I was single, I would. She's fine fine fine.........jafyk said:Ok, 5string, don't think I've forgotten. What's the update with our suspect?
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Hahahah wow man...its like the blind trying to lead the blind :nono:Zarky said:More advanced players will realize that sometimes a man has to give flowers to a chick and get yelled at.