teacha
Senior Don Juan
don't be so quick to judge, things are not always what they seem.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
The Most AFC Thing I Ever Saw!
- Thread starter 5string
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
5string
Master Don Juan
Update. He isnt here this AM, but I'm gonna do it. Here is something to think about. You guys all talk about maybe he cheated? Maybe it was her and he's so AFC that he's trying to get his oneitis back. hmmmm?jafyk said:Lol, nice scenario guy needs a place to sleep and cheats on his roof over his head? what is this? Ashton Kutcher in the movie "Spread"? 5String pls get that guy in here already. I dare you, lol.
jafyk
Master Don Juan
Lol, I just love the different speculations going on here. If only 5string here can bring that man in for observation, lol.
jafyk
Master Don Juan
Ok, 5string, don't think I've forgotten. What's the update with our suspect?
5string
Master Don Juan
Chump boy has not been back since. I'm ready to make my move if he does. I see the HB every day out of my office window though. Gotta guy here at work that I suggested he go chat her up (recon her). He's a good guy and single. He won't have a problem with a cold approach. If I was single, I would. She's fine fine fine.........jafyk said:Ok, 5string, don't think I've forgotten. What's the update with our suspect?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
jafyk
Master Don Juan
Lol, 5string aka the spy next door, jk. Well, I guess we'ill never know what happened now. Maybe he hung himself or saw the light and moved on.
eaglez1177
Master Don Juan
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Hahahah wow man...its like the blind trying to lead the blind :nono:Zarky said:More advanced players will realize that sometimes a man has to give flowers to a chick and get yelled at.