SeymourCake
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This is what we're up against.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
The Modern Woman
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This is what we're up against.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
AttackFormation
Master Don Juan
So?
What are you gonna do about it?
How does making this a part of your thoughts benefit you or anyone else?
What are you gonna do about it?
How does making this a part of your thoughts benefit you or anyone else?
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
sazc
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What In The HELL?!!! I mean, to post a profile so brazenly like that. And the sad part is that there are men who will reply and try to be that for her. I'm guessing her standards are not very high. You cant post something like that and expect a quality man to reply.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Make it stop!!!
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
So she wants some steak and some head, huh? LOL!
This is what we're up against.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
logicallefty
Moderator
I'd almost want to go out with her just to play head games with her and put her in her place. Just for entertainment cuz I'm a d|ck like that.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Been there, loads of fun...low on the radar insults fly over their heads. I've had quite a few miffed at me.
They need an enema.
See:
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Can a brotha get some puzzy? LOLLol. There's a whole lot of NOPE happening in that post, OP.
Found another one to add to the collection, courtesy of Imgur:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
ChristopherColumbus
Master Don Juan
Modern women? Unreadable....
Unreadable Nature
Her nature is unreadable,
But for the windowed pane,
When with a gilded symbol,
I see as through a frame.
Inside out her language goes
As if finding frontier homes,
If only for briefest moments,
Before she onward roams.
Like the firmament above,
Revolving on hidden springs,
Of desire, of fire, of love,
An eternity she sings.
Unreadable Nature
Her nature is unreadable,
But for the windowed pane,
When with a gilded symbol,
I see as through a frame.
Inside out her language goes
As if finding frontier homes,
If only for briefest moments,
Before she onward roams.
Like the firmament above,
Revolving on hidden springs,
Of desire, of fire, of love,
An eternity she sings.