SeymourCake
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This is what we're up against.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
The Modern Woman
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This is what we're up against.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
AttackFormation
Master Don Juan
So?
What are you gonna do about it?
How does making this a part of your thoughts benefit you or anyone else?
What are you gonna do about it?
How does making this a part of your thoughts benefit you or anyone else?
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
sazc
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What In The HELL?!!! I mean, to post a profile so brazenly like that. And the sad part is that there are men who will reply and try to be that for her. I'm guessing her standards are not very high. You cant post something like that and expect a quality man to reply.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Make it stop!!!
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
So she wants some steak and some head, huh? LOL!
This is what we're up against.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
logicallefty
Moderator
I'd almost want to go out with her just to play head games with her and put her in her place. Just for entertainment cuz I'm a d|ck like that.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Been there, loads of fun...low on the radar insults fly over their heads. I've had quite a few miffed at me.
They need an enema.
See:
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Can a brotha get some puzzy? LOLLol. There's a whole lot of NOPE happening in that post, OP.
Found another one to add to the collection, courtesy of Imgur:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
ChristopherColumbus
Master Don Juan
Modern women? Unreadable....
Unreadable Nature
Her nature is unreadable,
But for the windowed pane,
When with a gilded symbol,
I see as through a frame.
Inside out her language goes
As if finding frontier homes,
If only for briefest moments,
Before she onward roams.
Like the firmament above,
Revolving on hidden springs,
Of desire, of fire, of love,
An eternity she sings.
Unreadable Nature
Her nature is unreadable,
But for the windowed pane,
When with a gilded symbol,
I see as through a frame.
Inside out her language goes
As if finding frontier homes,
If only for briefest moments,
Before she onward roams.
Like the firmament above,
Revolving on hidden springs,
Of desire, of fire, of love,
An eternity she sings.