You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
reads ALL his posts. Some were ultra conservative religious views, others were him saying that he won't cheat but he'd make a thread saying that he cheated (apparantly talking to another girl was cheating to him). He tried to give advice on girls when he's a admitted 30 some year old virgin that couldn't get a woman if his life depended on it. And finally, ppl would give him serious advice and he'd ignore them because he doesn't actually want to change.pLaYtHiNg said:Why was he banned??
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
You've got to be pretty sick to pretend you're someone like Luke Skywalker.Kal0051 said:Plus there's the serious possibility that he was a troll (though talk about maintaining an act).
Because he used sosuave.net as a blog to post about his masturbatory adventures with a fleshlight. Then he kept bringing up his BS religion to try and shame people here simply because he can't get laid. He's a fvcking loser. Maybe you like him??pLaYtHiNg said:Why was he banned??
lol you sure put a lot of effort in that post to tell us you didn't knew about that fleshlight thing.Igetit! said:Well,I have to admit I was surprised when I logged on to find that Luke had been banned. I didn't care about the bad advice he gave,I just got sick of hearing him talk about that fleshlight thing. I had never even heard of a fleshlight until I read his threads and replies. And even then,I didn't know what it was. So I went to wiki dictionary and looked it up. I already knew it was something sexual,just didn't know what it was. Well from wiki there was a link to another site,then another,then another,until there was an advertisement about it on a porn site,with a picture of a guy using it.
I almost THREW UP over my keyboard.
Why Luke felt the need to constantly talk about that thing....I don't know.
However,I am curious why he was finally banned. His fleshlight stories weren't anything new. He'd been telling them for a while. So my question is,"Why now?" What was the last straw?
Since this is a thread giving appreciation to the mods for banning hm,maybe one of them can answer.