"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The misterious point system girls keep

Tiguere

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I've had my 2 previous girlfriends tell me I was gaining negative points whenever I did a fvck-up in the relationship..

Anyone else experienced this. Like when they read a text on your phone from a girl they go like " gaining points mister"

Is every girl like this?

What is this misterious point system they keep and by experience I learned these point never go away.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ignore the stupid point system girls don't know what they really want. They created it to make them seem like a catch even though your suppose to be.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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arutha

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'Browny points'. A common thing AFC's strive for in a relationship, basically doing 'good things' like buying her stuff and doing work/cooking etc.

Flip it around and make her earn points instead. This is actually a decent tactic from the start; if she does something good, reward her with a few points (or stars or whatever you want) and if she does something bad, take a few away. Keep the mystery of what she will be rewarded with if she gets enough, and if she does get a lot remember to reward her with a kiss or something. Just a fun flirty thing to do.
 

katatonia

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Point system? I think that's just a different way of saying interest level. When you lose points, you lose interest. Very easy to avoid; just don't be a chump pvssy b1tch.
 
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