"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The misterious point system girls keep

Tiguere

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I've had my 2 previous girlfriends tell me I was gaining negative points whenever I did a fvck-up in the relationship..

Anyone else experienced this. Like when they read a text on your phone from a girl they go like " gaining points mister"

Is every girl like this?

What is this misterious point system they keep and by experience I learned these point never go away.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ignore the stupid point system girls don't know what they really want. They created it to make them seem like a catch even though your suppose to be.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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arutha

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'Browny points'. A common thing AFC's strive for in a relationship, basically doing 'good things' like buying her stuff and doing work/cooking etc.

Flip it around and make her earn points instead. This is actually a decent tactic from the start; if she does something good, reward her with a few points (or stars or whatever you want) and if she does something bad, take a few away. Keep the mystery of what she will be rewarded with if she gets enough, and if she does get a lot remember to reward her with a kiss or something. Just a fun flirty thing to do.
 

katatonia

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Point system? I think that's just a different way of saying interest level. When you lose points, you lose interest. Very easy to avoid; just don't be a chump pvssy b1tch.
 
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