"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The misterious point system girls keep

Tiguere

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I've had my 2 previous girlfriends tell me I was gaining negative points whenever I did a fvck-up in the relationship..

Anyone else experienced this. Like when they read a text on your phone from a girl they go like " gaining points mister"

Is every girl like this?

What is this misterious point system they keep and by experience I learned these point never go away.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ignore the stupid point system girls don't know what they really want. They created it to make them seem like a catch even though your suppose to be.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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arutha

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'Browny points'. A common thing AFC's strive for in a relationship, basically doing 'good things' like buying her stuff and doing work/cooking etc.

Flip it around and make her earn points instead. This is actually a decent tactic from the start; if she does something good, reward her with a few points (or stars or whatever you want) and if she does something bad, take a few away. Keep the mystery of what she will be rewarded with if she gets enough, and if she does get a lot remember to reward her with a kiss or something. Just a fun flirty thing to do.
 

katatonia

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Point system? I think that's just a different way of saying interest level. When you lose points, you lose interest. Very easy to avoid; just don't be a chump pvssy b1tch.
 
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