"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The MINDSET of Hooking Up.

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I'm curious what the mindset a man should have when he's hooking up with a chick physically. I know the urge is to just thrust your tongue down her throat and grab her ass, but this is surely not the best strategy.

How "slow" and "sensual" should one be?

How aggressive?

Is it all about being a tease...all the way throughout sex itself?

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It depends on what mood you're in. Do you just want to **** the **** out of her or do you wanna make slow sweet sexytime?

You're the man. Do what you want when you feel like it. That's what keeps sex interesting.
 
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Done properly, it is much like an avalanche effect. You start off slow, building momentum, until it climaxes and everything is covered in the white stuff...er...

What always works for me is to start slowly and sensuously (you don't want her to think you're an animal...yet), get a good rhythm going, and when you can tell she's getting into it increase the speed. Talk dirty. Grab her ass. Whatever you feel you want to do. Then just kinda mix it up...if you're losing your cool, slow it down. Losing interest? Speed it up.

Sex is a lot like a playing a guitar solo (if you don't play guitar you might not understand where I'm coming from here, but I hope the analogy is fairly universal)...you want it to be soulful, emotive, and showcasing the best of your ability. And as far as tips, just learn the basics and then make it your own.
 
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