"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The MINDSET of Hooking Up.

mb121

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I'm curious what the mindset a man should have when he's hooking up with a chick physically. I know the urge is to just thrust your tongue down her throat and grab her ass, but this is surely not the best strategy.

How "slow" and "sensual" should one be?

How aggressive?

Is it all about being a tease...all the way throughout sex itself?

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It depends on what mood you're in. Do you just want to **** the **** out of her or do you wanna make slow sweet sexytime?

You're the man. Do what you want when you feel like it. That's what keeps sex interesting.
 

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Done properly, it is much like an avalanche effect. You start off slow, building momentum, until it climaxes and everything is covered in the white stuff...er...

What always works for me is to start slowly and sensuously (you don't want her to think you're an animal...yet), get a good rhythm going, and when you can tell she's getting into it increase the speed. Talk dirty. Grab her ass. Whatever you feel you want to do. Then just kinda mix it up...if you're losing your cool, slow it down. Losing interest? Speed it up.

Sex is a lot like a playing a guitar solo (if you don't play guitar you might not understand where I'm coming from here, but I hope the analogy is fairly universal)...you want it to be soulful, emotive, and showcasing the best of your ability. And as far as tips, just learn the basics and then make it your own.
 
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